2007-02-26 17:02:04 · 7 answers · asked by aili l 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I cant expertly answer this question but I can answer with what happened with me. My husband and I TTC for a little under 2 years and it never happened. We charted and "went half on a baby" when I was to suppose to be ovulating faithfully every month. It never happened. Well, I was tired of all the scheduled bow chica bow bow and told my husband I'm fine with what we have now and didn't want to pay to see an RE. So we quit "trying" and lo and behold we were pregnant the following month. I unfortunately miscarried at 7wks May of last year. So after that I felt empty and wanted my baby back. And we went back to trying again the next month. Once again, nothing. We kept at it for 3 months. I found out that I had a tiny cyst on each ovary in late August (because I was having cramps) and my gyn had me take birthcontrol for 2 months to shrink them. When the placebo week of the last pack came in the end of October I told my husband we can skip "trying" in November to get the pills out my system. Well I never receive my period for November or December. And guess what the outcome was...lol? I am now 17wks pregnant and due this August.
Based on what I went thru I would say YES pressure does affect it but aside from my own personal story I have no other proof to back it up. Hope this helps you a bit
2007-02-26 17:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by BlaqueButterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were anxious to start our family too. Just remember to enjoy your time with your husband, and let "whatever happens, happen." Stressing over an impending pregnancy won't help you get pregnant. These things take time. Keep in mind that you're newlyweds, and you should be enjoying your time together, not worrying about if you're ovulating or not. Secondly, don't forget that a perfectly healthy couple only has a 20% to 25% chance to conceiveon any given month. (My husband is one that doesn't understand this at all. I stopped talking my birthcontrol in April, and we found out in July that I was pregnant. He thinks that took a LONG time.) It will happen when it happens, no use in worrying about it. You can't rush it along.
2007-02-27 02:03:39 · answer #2 · answered by Patty O' Green 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, stress and pressure can affect pregnancy... you know that old saying "a watched pot never boils"... same theory here.
Just relax... have fun with your new husband. Start taking a good multi-vitamin, or prenatal vitamin. Have lots of sex about 9-16 days after the first day of your period.
If you haven't gotten pregnant by the end of the year... then think about talking to a professional.
2007-02-27 01:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that if you just got married you should wait a little while, the divorce rate is quite high these days. enjoy your life of your just begginning of a marraige with your husband, save up money and get your finances straight then when the time is right, have a kid.you dont want to bring a child into this world and then end up with a broken house (divorce). seriously think about it. and when you are ready dont try so hard just let it happen.
2007-02-27 01:16:27 · answer #4 · answered by cowgurlmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I don't understand your question. What do you mean by pressure affecting pregnancy?
2007-02-27 01:04:16 · answer #5 · answered by SydneyMum101 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If three years go by and you haven't gotten pregnant, ask us again. Just let it happen. Don't forget to take your vitamins.
2007-02-27 01:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by Automation Wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. dont "try"....your marriage is fresh. enjoy each other. take some vacations and let nature take its course.
2007-02-27 02:53:50 · answer #7 · answered by jean grey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋