I was dating a lady, and i cared very deeply for her..basically she was rather mean to be me,..Then she broke up with me, she got back with an ex.. and hurt my heart..how do i get over her? it stings when i see her..i think about her a lot...i just want to totally let this go, and it's hard i still care so much...i have desires to pursue her..but i know this will get me nowhere and probably not a healthy place i NEED to be. please advise.
2007-02-26 16:58:07 · 6 answers · asked by cutegirlin_tn 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There's not much to do here except try to move on. It's hard but you can do it. Do your best to not think about her. Go out with friends, start a new hobby and don't obsess over her. She's obviously not worth your time if she got with someone else and was mean to you. You deserver to be with someone who treats you with respect and cares about you. This girl probably didn't and her actions say that. We've all been done wrong by someone at least once in our life. That's just part of life. Try to learn a lesson from your time together and next time, bail on her before she starts treating you bad. No one is worth that. You need to work on your self esteem a bit. You do deserve love & respect and you need to realize that. Use this time now to work on that and don't go after this girl. You'll only get hurt and put off the time it's going to take you to get over her. She's a loser, you can and will do better. Good luck hun :)
2007-02-26 17:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wish her the best deep in your heart. Consider this a new way of expressing your love. Letting go is the same us holding close if the motive is the same. Forgive, love, and let go, not to impress her with this new you but because it is a noble thing to do. Before you know it, you'll love having loved this much and that feeling will out live any hurt you may have felt. One of this days you may find somebody you really care for and the four of you may double date.
Believe me!
2007-02-27 01:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Aleqa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep busy so you won't be spending time thinking about her.. get out and meet with family, friends, neighbors, get into music, sports, other hobbies.. and when the time is right, start looking for someone new
2007-02-27 10:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she didn't care for you , why should you pine for her?
find a new girl to love and enjoy !
meet some single girls and start enjoying yourself and your days .
not worth it being miserable honey .
i agree on that holiday , sounds delicious
2007-02-27 01:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by AngelaBennett© 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get yourself busy or have a holiday. clear your mind. she doesnt worth having you. move on with your life, you can find somebody else who's better than her. it hurts, but time heals.
2007-02-27 01:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by williams 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
get a BOYFRIEND, not to make fun of you but guys can be much nicer. and they look better, i mean look at my pix.
2007-02-27 01:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by ftballtwenty1 4 · 0⤊ 5⤋