whats this weird feeling..?

Question

I think I fell out of love with my fiance.... since living with him I just now feel that he gets on my nerves. When I ask him to do something he refuses... we argue all the time over the dumbest things. i dont know if Im stressing or what but i cant deal with it anymore. When I think about being with him im confused... I dont know if ilove him or what. we've been together for almost 3 yrs now.. whats the deal? is it normal.?

this feeling has been here for maybe2 or 3 months ..

Answer 1

yes, it's normal. He's probably stressing, too remember. Have an honest talk about it--that's what married people do, or should do.
I've been married for 20 years and the first few months , pre-marriage, we lived together I felt just like you do now. The whole living together thing is terrifying and you are both adjusting so try to give each other a little space. But honest communication is the key.
If he has habits or other idiosyncrasies you feel you can never get over, either accept them as part of him or call it quits. He may be thinking the same things about you, so talk talk talk talk talk!!! Good Luck!

Answer 2

hi c.p.,
i do not understand how u lived with this man for last 3 yrs. the situation u narrated is sufficient for 3 months or days only. better u get u both take advice from a psychologist to solve ur problem. if it is not working then separation or the divorce is the only solution. my best wishes!

Answer 3

Go away for a week to your parents or an old friends. Sometimes people need to be apart to see how much the love and care for each other.

Answer 4

a friend of mine once told me that if you are trying to convince yourself that your still in love or you spend time worrying about being with someone its time to move on, people grow apart and the sooner you accept it the easier it is for all. like all things thats way easier said than done

Answer 5

you are not suited