i would like to get everyones HONEST opinion on what they think my marriage is like.(just by knowing that)..take a guess...Please!!
2007-02-26 16:27:17 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa Kay 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Movies
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2007-02-26 16:29:29 · update #1
ok ---here is the real truth... My husband have been through a lot of stuff through the years. Yes Granted i was young when i married....but the truth is marring him has been the best experience of my life. We went together for 3 years before we got married. I really took the time to know him... We had similar morals, attractiveness...other than that we are opposite. We have two kids...6 & 9. I am presently in college to be an RN. He is self employedin construction. We are the most EQUAL couple i have ever met.
I think it is really sad that people posted such negative things after just reading that only that we had been together for so long. It shows me just how hopeless this world is when it comes to love...Let me tell you this...only real genuine love comes with time..and it ages graciously through trial and error. So good luck to all of those negative thinkers...you will be the lonely ones...because you give up way to easy... Thanks for responding.
2007-02-27 15:34:30 · update #2
I have been married for ten years. I got married when I was twenty and we have been together since I was seventeen. We have had our extremely hard times and I have actually almost hated him at different points in our marriage. But I love him and he loves me and I can't ever picture being away from him. We have grown up together and I don't want anybody else.
2007-02-26 16:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by jlily680 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Since you asked, here is my guess. Since in your early 30s, I guess your wondering if you just didn't settle and now regret not having shopped around more for a soul mate. People grow up, grow together and apart all at the same time, naturally. Life is difficult and always looks greener on the other side. Being from a generation of instant satisfaction and raised by the me generation, you're probably bored and looking for new horizons or challenges. The seasons of life comes in cycles, couples add to the joy, multiply the happiness and divide the grief. Accept what you have been given or learn how to change what isn't working in your life.
Good for you, you have a wonderful life.
Well now that we know you are happy, why do you ask strangers to judge something we have no idea about. Experience isn't what happens to you but what you do with what happens to you. Being eternally optimistic is great but even bad things happen to good people. For someone wanting to be in the theraputic field, be careful with your opinions and generalizations, every person has a reason they are who they are.
2007-02-27 00:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by Outside the box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been married 13 years, I would assume one of two things. Either you are very happy and you probably married someone who was involved with many of the same activities as you - either in school or out. Maybe you feel a little restless sometimes wondering if you missed something better.
Alternately, you might be miserable. You married a guy you loved in high school and maybe had a couple of kids not long after graduation. Now he's turned into a lazy bum and you want out but don't really know what to do because you've never experienced anything else. Maybe you thought he was going to college and had a bright future but now all he does is lay around watching sports and scratching his balls.
By the way, I'm 34.
2007-02-27 00:36:20 · answer #3 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the love is lowing down. You need to have a face to face talk with your sweetheart. Your marriage is not the same as others marriages. Just hang on. let everything get in to place. sooner or latter you will know. Take it all easy step by step. Remember not to make up things in your mind or listen to gossip.
2007-02-27 00:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
38 and single. If you made it this far, you have a pretty solid relationship.
As for your marriage, I am going to guess either you have an open marriage. I am also guessing you married right after high school and leads to my guess about your marriage relationship. At some point or another, one or both of you thought "I wonder if..." and decided to experiment a little.
2007-02-27 00:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by Kevin k 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would guess that it's a good marriage. Both of you must really love each other, because you have at least known each other for more than 17 years. If you haven't gotten tired of seen each others face you really love each other.
2007-02-27 01:42:20 · answer #6 · answered by Sam A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
This could be the stupidest question I have ever seen on Yahoo answers!
But, for the sake of argument I assume your home life is no longer sweet and you are passive aggressively searching for answers.
Since I am guessing, I will say that you and your husband have grown apart and you have sparkle in your eye for another man.
You are really looking for people in the same situation who ultimately were bold enough to dissolve such a fairy-book relationship.
Guilt, fear and encouragement are the motivators for this question.
2007-02-27 00:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by Mr realistic...believer in truth 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
about 5 yrs away from a divorce.....you've been around each other too long. people change. one or both of you want to remember what life was like without each other. because you have never really had a chance to be free. the world has changed and you want to as well.
that is my honest opinion.
****if this is not the case, GOD bless, you have truly been blessed with your soulmate which is something most ppl never experience. cherish it.
oh im 22, never married, and not rushing to be...
2007-02-27 02:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by jean grey 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow. That is amazing. Most of my friends who married their "highschool sweethearts" are already divorced. I am 23 with one child and I am in the process of a divorce. I say CONGRATULATIONS, just as long as it is a good relationship, which I am sure it is or you wouldn't still be married to him.
: )
2007-02-27 00:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Mommy To Be in April 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 41 years old a widow.
I am guessing that the magic has left your marriage and you are getting bored.You have at least once seriously considered having an affair.Before you do that I suggest couples therapy......how did I do?
2007-02-27 00:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋