Hey I need help! I'm in love with my girlfriend that is 648 lbs. She isn't bed-ridden yet, but she stays inside because people stare and because she can't fit through the front door. I know in my heart that she needs to lose weight. But if she does, I don't think I would love her anymore. Also, she might find better men than me. Is it really wrong for me to be feeding her just to stay at her current weight?
2007-02-26 16:21:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
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2007-02-26 16:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by defragmentedbrain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea well i think most women have a issue with there body somehow...if you think your love is that deep and you will always be there for each other then help her, because your the only one ho will ever make her happy...your the one she will fall back on in her time of need, stick by her and help her in her time of need...but as its said..your body is your temple and if you like your girl wilt a little more 'shape' then help her loose a bit of weight because obesity can effect you for life and dramatically shorten your life span....go to a GP for some help and see a counselor and sort it out because if she falls ill your hurt will be a lot worse! good luck!
2007-02-27 01:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Syndicate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love this person, then you would be trying to do what is best for her!
It doesn't matter what you want her to be, what does SHE want? True love has nothing to do with what we want, but it is all about what the other person wants.
I will never understand how people can claim that they LOVE a person, but only if certain things happen. People are who they are, and you either love them for that, or you don't.
So come on, do you LOVE her and want what is best for her? Quit thinking about your insecurities and deal with real life and help her get to where she wants to be. Then you will have proven to her that you do LOVE her.
2007-02-27 00:38:44 · answer #3 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Maybe you should both get some help.
2007-02-27 00:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋