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I need help stop biting my nails. I feel that is the reason why I haven't been able to date girls. I never started dated girls and I am 19 years old. not only that, I think my voice is a big turnoff for girls. I want to enter the dating world already. I talked to new girls last semester but at the end of the semester, they thought I was a stranger. and plus, why would someone laugh at me even though I was just asking someone for help? I was just asking the girl to the right of me about some homework, and the girl that sat in front of her laughed at me. and I know she was laughing at me but i don't know why.

2007-02-26 16:03:51 · 5 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Are you sure this girl was laughing at you? Maybe she was laughing at something else. You might want to drop the paranoia if you want to start dating people. Biting your nails doesn't prevent you from being in the dating world. I've been biting my nails for as long as I can remember and it hasn't stopped me from dating. If you want to attract women and start dating then you have to put yourself out there. Start meeting and talking to women. Go to the gym. Join some clubs that you are interested in and meet girls who have the same interests in you. If you are really worried about your voice you might want to consider going to see a voice therapist. Or if you are in a college that has a drama department look and see if they have a Voice and Speech class. One last thing, breathe. Don't worry about it so much. It will happen when it happens, just enjoy the process.

I hope that helps! Good luck.

2007-02-26 16:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You can get speech therapy for your voice. Talk to the school counselor about it. As for the nail biting, carry a nail clipper and file with you all the time. When you want to trim off a bit of nail, use the clipper instead of your teeth. It is a matter of will power.

2007-02-27 00:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0 0

Look; face it. Teen-age girls are among the cruelest beings on earth! They can be the sweetest, too, but they have little tolerance for people who do not fit "their mold". Give them time to mature, and in the meantime, so will you, and your voice.

I understand your desire to get into dating, but you may have to wait until someone comes along mature enough to understand who you are, and not just what you look like or sound like. If your voice has not finished changing in a year, see a speech therapist. You can correct that flaw with practice.

2007-02-27 00:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0 0

Were you biting your nails while talking to them? Seems kind of strange that the one girl would be laughing at you.

2007-02-27 00:08:40 · answer #4 · answered by m k 5 · 0 0

Everyone has some superiority in him. Explore those in you and concentrate on them. Don't bother about weaknesses in you. Rather try to improve them that much you can. And consider girls as your friends at first. Among the several girlfriends, someday you would find your perfect match.

2007-02-27 00:20:25 · answer #5 · answered by dnagsarkar 3 · 0 0

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