Its like u cant even take the pain its hard to catch a breath it feels like a blockage way wen its insode and is forced to go in and it wen it hits it it is unbearable and it bleeds sometimes.is it too far in like 11 in.
2007-02-26 15:49:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
im 25 and married
2007-02-26 15:52:48 · update #1
Please stop doing that to yourself! 11 inches is way too much for the vagina to take oftentimes, especially if you aren't aroused (and who could be with that dang thing hitting you). You are probably (I would bet money on this) hitting your cervix and that is BAD. Take it easy on your poor cervix and don't let that man (or object if masturbating) do that to you! Take control and at least straddle so that you have control. The cervix is pretty important if you want to have children, so take care of it. The "blockage" is the passageway to your uterus!
I just read that you are 25 and married. This means you should have good communication during sex, and why are you letting him do that if it doesn't feel good?!?!?! Do things that feel good, why have sex otherwise?
PS I just read other people's answers, it's not a medical problem, and lube won't solve your problem. Imagine you are shoving a baseball bat into a bottle, you will break the bottle (just like you are breaking your cervix).
2007-02-26 15:53:53 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Vida 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If your man has an 11 inch cock that is beyond enormous and he shouldn't be putting it all the way in. Are you sure he has that big a dick? If so stop letting him all the way in before you do yourself any major damage. If he isn't that big and you mistook his measurements, maybe you should be checked by your lady doctor for a pap smear, STD's and an internal exam. As you should not bleed from sex.
2007-02-26 23:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by BrutalNerd 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He's hitting your cervix. That's the blockage. Ouch! Tell him to back off!
2007-02-26 23:57:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa A 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry this is a cruel answer.
I feel you may not
- really be ready for sex
- truly like this man
- enjoy the wonderful time you can have when we do the penis in vagina thing.
If you really liked this man -
(1) you'd have been to the doctor the next day to check it out.
(2) your feminine juices would flow so much you'd be lubricated and there would be little pain.
As I used to tell my students years ago -
First learn to laugh with a man, learn to enjoy doing silly things together, then and only then do the sex thing.
2007-02-26 23:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by teacher groovyGRANNY 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
May be u should penetrate the backup and leave the current one for occasional fact findings.
2007-02-27 00:10:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sir W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sure that the 16 y/o does not have 11inches. You might want to get a new ruler.
2007-02-26 23:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by dmbutler47 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go see a physician; this is not normal. Lubricants are available that may prove helpful.
2007-02-27 00:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the average "depth" of a woman is 7 inches
2007-02-26 23:54:32 · answer #8 · answered by kel_230 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
his penis is vey big he shouldn't be putting it all inside you talk to him and tell what you like and what you don't meanwhile you have to go to a doctor to see if there had been any damage to you vagina.
2007-02-27 06:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, please talk to your gyno. Something is not right! One thing you did not say in here and I am wondering, is this a new development with him? If so, then it could be a serious condition and needs to be discovered by your doctor.
2007-02-27 00:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋