i have tis really good female friend who when i first met her i said that she isnt my type but after getting to know her ive grown to like her alot and im really interested in her. i have alot of feelings for her and it drives me nuts. i just havent told her cuz of everything ive been going through with some one else. now that i have nothing goin on i feel like i wanna tell her. i know its not just some complacient random thing. its been somethng that has grown with in me. should i tell her and risk complicating the friendship or should keep it to myself and just be the best friend that i can be?
2007-02-26 15:47:38 · 9 answers · asked by doktor of the mynd 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the main weird thing is that its my best friends ex girlfriend. but even she said it i met her first when on the topic if i was betraying my best friend by hanging out with her
2007-02-26 15:56:24 · update #1
just wait for a while and maintain friendship,wait for the right time and right place and then tell her your feelings for her try to know how she feels about you cause in some cases sooner decision doesn't work so just go around and if she like you too then best of luck
2007-02-26 15:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by %0oi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, I would have to discuss this situation with my best friend. If the attraction and feelings have developed, it would have to be presented for discussion. The relationship I have with my best friend I value a great deal. I would consider her feelings.
And from there I would make my decision. I hope I never find myself in this type of situation. Good luck and God bless****
2007-02-26 16:03:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she failed her mind reading course like the rest of us then I would suggest telling her. other wise your entire relationship is based on you keeping a lie. The only risk you take is not risking. I mean what if she feels the same way about you> wouldn't that be something. it is possible.
2007-02-26 15:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My personal experience is that it spoils the relationship. But it may differ. Is the female really cool ? Do you guys discuss intimate topics easily & comfortably ? If yes, then she won't be offended at all. In fact, she wud've prolly thought abt it.
2007-02-26 15:53:01 · answer #4 · answered by MV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she may feel the same way?I would just hold off maybe things will just develop more on their own!!
2007-02-26 15:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
अगर आप उन्से प्यार करते हो तो बींदास बोल दो.
2007-02-26 15:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead...if you dnt express now, and she has some feelings for you then that too will disappear.....
Now, you are a friend... she may give a thot to it.............
Just give her an option dnt force .... her and begin wt ...
"watever it is ... we will be friendz?
2007-02-26 17:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Luv + Luc = 'ME' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,buddy...dont wait long.....go tell her!!! If its real, dont let her go. all the best!!!
2007-02-26 19:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her
2007-02-26 15:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋