Was there ever a time that sex tend to be a routine between your partner and it doesnt excite you anymore?

Answer 1

yes, yes and yes..it only stays exciting for a short time.....once you know someone, you know what the procedure is everytime.

Answer 2

I was married to a man that lied and cheated on me constantly. I hated having sex with him. I thought it would always be this way.

I was wrong. I have been married to a man for 4 years now and we've been together for 7 years. I still love having sex. It's not every night as it was at first, but it's quite often and I'm definitely not bored or want another man.

When I was married in such a bad relationship, I asked a couple of my friends if you could really enjoy sex for many years. They all told me it was very possible. I didn't believe it at the time.

I know different now. You can be committed to one man and the sex still be good for many years.

Answer 3

This is bound to happen in the most loving of relationships. Thats why its important to be good friends in a relationship b/c sex can never carry the weight of a great relationship.

Media influences will have you believing that sex is something you should be having at least three times a week: In the shower, in Central Park, and in the Elevator...we are confused about where and how often....

Now if your'e experiencing sexual frustration and withdrawel then you need to communicate truth. Let him/her have it, don't blame them just tell them what you desire. This is the part where trust, integrity and honesty carry much needed weight. Without it relationships are simply a waste of time.

After 5 years I was afraid to tell my husband that he became as predictable as Monday night football...I didn't want to shatter his ego...but as with all delicate discussions...you have to find a way to say things lovingly....

Answer 4

In a good marriage? Absolutely never! We always found each other to be as exciting each time as it was the first time. Maybe one reason is that we didn't think of it as having sex, to us it was making love to each other. We never put a time limit on it and we both had the desire to please each other not ourselves. That is the difference between romancing the love of your life and just trying to get sexual gratification for yourself. You look at it with the right attitude and you'll find the quest to make your lover say to you, "please no more" is more exciting than anyhting you will ever experience. It can almost turn into a contest to see who will wear out first! Remember to say, "I'm gonna rock your world" !!!!!!

Answer 5

Hahahaha-ah-ha?

Um, I chalked it up to one of my chores, yep. But there were reasons why.

I like sex. It's always been good until someone I was with went bad.

I didn't spend a great amount of time with one person until I got married, though. I'm also divorcing that person, so I'm biased.

She was cheating and the red flags flew and I started having serious difficulty. Until I stopped trying period.

Still, while biased, one chick in Chicago I was dating had other guys in her life and that was never boring. In fact it was great.

Think it depends on what you want from the person/relationship or... if you're thinking of cheating.

Edit: Why did every other person before me say it was normal and they were all women? :P

Answer 6

Oh yes. I think this happens to almost all couples who have been together for years. I don't think it's necessarily a bad thing. He still turns me on, we're just not as experimental and spontaneous as we were in the beginning of our relationship. If sex is unbearable for you because of the lack of excitement, try some new things, don't be shy! Talk to him, find out what he likes, play out a few fantasies. What do you have to lose?

Answer 7

The answer is NO You dont have fall in everyones footsteps. If thats going on in your life right now do everything you can to change it. If it doesnt work out your not ment to be together. I'm proving everyone wrong at this time in my life. And its not about proving anyone wrong its about love and what YOU want it to be. If theres a girl like you in the world, theres a guy like you in the world.

Answer 8

sex is sex after all. it is that part of our life which goes up but quickly comes down. you are hrny, lustty and needy for some time but it cannot continue. It can be due to multiple reasons. Family, Job, etc

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Answer 9

Of course...especially for us that have been with teh same partner for years...so what do you do? Simply you Kick it up a Notch or two... Try something different, it could be a different room, position, etc.....or something that you had not done in years...

Answer 10

yes it happens and its very common...but u being smart comes in how to make it exciting again...give urself space feel good about urself..feel sexy again...and do some seductions before getting to it...walk around naked...try it outdoors...cudlle ur partner...when my partner is stressed out or frustrated from something i hate myself when im doing it...there's no spark...when things are fine we are all over each other...its psychological

Answer 11

of course, kids, jobs, different schedules. Remember dating days- when you wanted to surprise someone for lunch. Or breakfast quickie. Change it up a lil be more spontaneous than putting it on the calender.
have fun!