We don't talk at all. We see each other almost everyday. We will keep seeing of each other for two more years because of college, plus we live in the same town. And we both plan to remain here. We used to be the best of friends since we were kids until mid-junior high {around that time}. We were so extremely close and I used to have a huge crush on him. I remember he confessed to me when we were a little older {still young though} but I rejected him since he always he used to reject me even though I never told him how I felt..After that, everything fell apart...When we reached high school, he tried a lot for us to get together again, but I was ashamed of how I dealt with I did to him...and scared, scared that he was just playing with me. I also fell in love with someone and was well, distracted with him. Once I was beginning to get close to the other, he once again rejected me...After that, I decided not to speak to him no longer {even though he said we could be friends}.
2007-02-26 15:34:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am currently with my first love, and we are planning on getting married...We have been together for over three years and I am so happy and in love with him. I do not regret anything at all. But I still think of my childhood crush and feel a little heartache whenever I see him. We have had nice talks now and then, and he sometimes tries to reach out to me and gives me looks...he still gives me some signs sometimes. I want to stay with who I am with right now, I want to marry him. But...I want that other man out of my head. Or at least find a way to start an innocent friendship again, because that's what I really miss. Our friendship. But the guy is so arrogant, proud and cruel...He will most likely think I still have a silly crush oh him...I know he misses me aswell, but when he reaches out to me I panic and reject him. And if I try to reach out to him, I'm scared that he will reject me also...but sometimes he's so nice to me...
What do I do? This doesn't make any sense...
2007-02-26 15:44:10 · update #1
Be honest to urself
pick up courage and go straight to him
tell hi wat u feel for him!!!
if he still thinks he needs u he will not reject u
and also try telling the guy u r trying to get married wid wat u feel for the other one
coz if u dont u r cheating 3 ppl
the first one ,the second one and also ur cheating urself!!!!!!!
think clearly make careful decisions or else u could spoil ur own life!
u dont hav to feel ashmed of this
but one thing : u hav surely missed out a huuuuuuge number of chances in ur life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
best of luck !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 16:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by ~~mruthyu~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. It sounds like he isn't interested enough. I don't know if anyone ever completely gets over a childhood crush. I never did and still think about that person just about every day, even though it was in the 3rd grade and we're talking about multiple decades here. That did not stop me from marrying someone else, with whom I have been very happy for close to 20 years (and 2 kids later). It's something sweet that happened to you a long time ago. It will be with you forever, just accept it as part of your life and move on.
2007-02-26 15:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask yourself what would you do if the one you love was thinking of someone else? If it bugs you this much It seems like your not over this guy. You should talk to your boyfriend about this, if he loves you he will understand and the both of you will overcome this TOGETHER Try it! It might just be the best thing you have ever tried. Everything happens for a reason.
2007-02-26 16:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by poison girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to change your daily routine...where ever you normally walk...go the other way...you will have to live with the pain of seeing him for the odds that he changes his daily routine to the exact one you have. Chances are...he won't. Or, maybe you like to feel the pain...it could seem better than nothing!
2007-02-26 15:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys shud stop playin games wit eachother and juss be upfront and honest. if u guys are/were that close u should really tell him that u care bout him and how uve always felt. im sure he won't reject u this time
good luck and god bless
2007-02-26 15:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by rpm771 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a childhood crush.. im only 14-but have loved him since i was 3-4... so its been awhile!! ill never forget harold.. i see him everyday- hes such a cutie. but i figure its pretty much hopeless for me =[
2007-02-26 16:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure, sure, sure, I had no longer considered my acceptable buddy in twelve years. i'm thoroughly in Love with him. we are both married and attempting to cover our thoughts. i imagine that we are soul acquaintances and are meant to be jointly. in effortless words time will tell. genuine thoughts in effortless words strengthen with time.
2016-12-05 00:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's first love, a woman never forgets.
2007-02-26 15:37:31 · answer #8 · answered by Black 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a dummy that blew her chance for no good reason. You made your bed now sleep in it, alone.
2007-02-26 15:37:57 · answer #9 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
send him a e-mail and tell him you are waiting for him in a hotel room all by yourself.
2007-02-26 15:38:47 · answer #10 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋