A couple of weeks ago, I had this bizzare dream about me making out with this guy in my school, and hes gay. No im not gay, or bisexualt, etc JUST stright. I am just a little confused, does this dream mean I am gay or does this happen to most guys. In addition Im not sure how this contributes to this dream but I am currently 15 years old. What does this really say about my sexual identity and my self as a person?
2007-02-26 15:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by ZobmiJ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Relax,
It's perfectly normal for people of either persuasion to have dreams every now and then about having sex, kissing etc with someone of the sex that doesn't float their boat in the waking world.
It could be that you're curious, that your mind is playing through random fantasy scenarios but it doesn't automatically mean that you're gay, straight or martian for that matter.
If you have recurring dreams about it and it actually bothers you you may want to talk to a psychologist, hypnotist or someone else that you feel is trained to help you.
If not, don't worry about it :)
2007-02-26 15:32:11 · answer #1 · answered by Gene M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sexual identity just is, you are gay or straight or Bi .. you can accept it or fight against it. You do choose your behavior, but that is not the same thing as saying that sexual orientation is a choice. I think it is most important to just pay attention to your attrations, and honor the way you have been created. At 15, I'd say you can't know yet, so, don't make a big deal about your dream, it could be an active imagination or the first of many. Wait and see.
2007-02-26 23:37:17 · answer #2 · answered by Terri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just a dream. Do not worry. You must had an extra look at him in the gym after knowing that he is a Gay. This must have been registered in your brain and it has come as a dream.
If this is just a dream forget it but if you admire him and want to have sex with him in the gym then you could be a Gay or bi
2007-02-27 02:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This dream does not by any case represent your sexuality. You are not a homosexual. Perhaps in the back of your subconscious mind you may of question regarding the desire what's its like to be involve in a relationship with another male, its totally of out curiosity, nothing more. What ever you think do not base your dream in accordance to your preference of sexual desire, but to respect those who do.
A person solidly knows, especially at your age, whether he or she is gay or straight. I think the lesson you have leaned is to respect those who are. I personally have admiration of you seeking your thought to get insight of this matter. So, don't feel alert and scare, your desire is for girls because you know yourself.
God Bless
2007-02-26 23:44:35 · answer #4 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a single dream (even multiple ones to an extent) will NOT make any difference in your sexuality. at 15 being sexually confused is normal. yes it happens to almost everyone at our age but most just don't (or feel they can't) talk about it. don't worry.
2007-02-26 23:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if your gay youll know, some dudes, like yourself have random gay flares... they dont mean your gay, your brains just playing with you.
PS. Girls are waaay hotter than dudes, and you cant have kids with dudes, and you will have to wear tight jeans and polos for the rest of your life
2007-02-26 23:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by joe d 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There's no such thing as a sexual identity. Sex is a behavior, not a trait. You choose how you behave. It's as simple as that.
2007-02-26 23:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh geez. Give me a break.
2007-02-26 23:30:20 · answer #8 · answered by littlechrismary 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋