As any human I have the desire for social acceptance. I wish I didnt because it is semi-impossible for me to change, believe me I try. I do not just sit at home all the time. When I can get out I go. I can not make small talk every awakening second is rude. Friends play with eachother, and it is hard for me to feel that, I just get akward looks like dude what are you doing? And girls are worse, at this period our brains want us to get married. I only had one friend girl in my life. I CAN NOT talk to any girl, unless they are black because of my ghetto background I am forced to talk to which I despise, not that I am racist, but I am attracted to white girls. I also am not good at any thing so I always have people saying I am better than you. Everyone is so competitive. I know socially I have no motivation. I tell myself I will get better but my brain holds me back from moving up and consistency. So pretty much socially I have no motivation. I really dont get religion.maybe only be good?
2007-02-26 15:24:14 · 7 answers · asked by raymanfranks 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I believe that you really could change but you are the only one to make the effort.
You need to go out and find new people to socialize with for one thing and so what if you prefer white girls? They are still girls and would probably find you interesting too.
It seems that the so-called friends you have are not "friends" at all or they wouldn't rag on you the way they do now.
It isn't all your fault but it's got a lot to do with those you call friends that drag you down to where you are now and to think that life isn't worth living is nothing that you should even be thinking about anyway because once you find some new friends you will see the difference in your life almost immediately and you will be one happy dude for it too.
As the "old saying" goes, try it you'll like it.
Best to you and your future too.
2007-02-26 15:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the same way. I think that maybe we are all in this for the experience...we say that a person is stereotype, but you yourself is stereotype. When we think about the problems in life, most of them are caused by us. You think that someone is not normal, but everyone is normal because what they do is human. Its life. And we can control it. my answer to your question is that there is no meaning of life, and there is no motivation in living it. We are only human and what we do on earth stays. my theory is to have an experience in it and think about what we would do without it. In conclusion, you should be happy that we even have a life, and try to find solutions to problems in our lives instead of moping about it. Classify your problem...what causes it? Change your personality in life, because you can find the different sides of yourself. You say your brain holds you back from moving up, so what is holding it back? Tell yourself to hold your brain from moving down, and look on the bright side. I know that when we are sad, we simply can't stay that way. Push yourself forward to do something. Find a goal in life for you to do. make a difference. maybe if you helped somone with their problems, you would recieve help back. One of the goals in someones life can help someone. This is my second theory: find out what you can do to help someone. This is about all I know, and I took a really long time thinking about this. One more thing: your personality made you what you are today, so wonder what you'll be like if you had tons of other personalities. Good luck to your future buddy:).
2007-02-26 23:46:28 · answer #2 · answered by donehere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, maybe the people you're hanging around with aren't the right people...........I dont mean in race but if you're friends cant accept you, maybe they're the problem not you.
2007-02-26 23:30:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,,,here's the deal....everything you said about yourself is wrong because they're all skills....you say them like they in stone.
You chose those and you chose wrong. Start working at your skills and you'll be amazed...be a quick learner, not a know it all.
2007-02-26 23:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by stonerosedesigndotcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living sure beats the hell out of the alternative.
2007-02-26 23:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often ask myself the same question, and I have everything I ever dreamed of and more, so go figure... I still can't figure it out.
2007-02-27 00:27:11 · answer #6 · answered by Reserved 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry. life will get better. dont do anything stupid. cuz you kno that people are gonna miss you. so just sit home sometimes. and sleep. then youll feel better. that always helps me :]
2007-02-26 23:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋