does it make him a bad guy for..... me that we had a threesome does that make me a bad person for him..... did we do something wrong??
2007-02-26 15:01:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
It doesn't make either of you bad people. I guess it's better than sneaking behind each other's backs and having sex with people. I think, though, it's always risky to bring a third person in sexually to an established relationship. You or your partner could develop feelings for or even fall in love with the third person. You could be entering dangerous waters.
2007-02-26 23:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by DawnDavenport 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you were both open to it, and enjoyed it there is nothing wrong depending on your morals. If you are a christian then it is considered wrong as you have gone outside of the relationship. If you are not, I think it is perfectly fine as long as you both agreed to it. It is best to make some ground rules for next time (if there is one) though, so neither of you are hurt by something the other may do. It will also set some boundaries so your relationship doesn't suffer.
2007-02-26 23:17:26 · answer #2 · answered by BrutalNerd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does'nt make you or him a bad person, you guys just love each other enough to full fill each others fantasies. Thats a wonderful thing to be able to do. Especially when you do it together, and know it was done out of the love you both feel for each other. It could even bring you closer together.
Blessed be.
2007-02-27 01:39:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why that would make you or him a bad person, as long as you talked about it before and decided together that it was something you both wanted.
2007-02-27 09:52:29 · answer #4 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have mutually agreed before you into a 3some. So it does not make you bad for him and him bad for you or You both bad for the society as you live you life.
2007-02-27 02:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by newsundersky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's one of the many forms of polygamy and it's ok. It doesn't make either of you a bad person. Monogamy isn't for everyone.
2007-02-26 23:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,...if you're fine with it,...and he's fine with it
....where's the problem.
P.S.....ya' could'a called me tho'....I wasn't doing anything at the time! lol
2007-02-27 00:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's wrong only if u or he feels it was!
2007-02-26 23:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋