If you're a boy and you had no father figure to imitate and learn from, you're left feeling directionless and unsure of how men behave and interact properly with others.
If you're a girl and you had no father figure, you grow up unsure of how male/female relationships work and you may lack self-esteem from believing that you may have been the cause of your father leaving or abandoning you.
It works the same if the mother was absent or not nurturing. Boys need their mothers to learn how to interact with girls. Girls need their mothers to learn how girls interact with the world.
2007-02-26 14:57:23
·
answer #1
·
answered by grrluknow 5
·
2⤊
0⤋
Imagine not knowing how a man, husband, or father should behave? then going out into the world and learning from others. Imagine you being the only one on the block without a father.. missing important things like school activities. I had a father til i was 9, then he left. Can't say that i was messed up. but I was very alone and ashamed that I didn't have a father when all my friends did. That hurts growing up, and knowing your father doesn't care... that's messed up
2007-02-26 22:58:00
·
answer #2
·
answered by pink9364 5
·
1⤊
1⤋
i don't think thats tru. i didn't grow up with a father and i'm in college, and working, and i don't get into any trouble. im a good person, with goals i want to accomplish.
2007-02-26 23:31:38
·
answer #3
·
answered by Anonymous
·
1⤊
0⤋
Not always true, but a male's main role model is usually his father
2007-02-26 22:56:33
·
answer #4
·
answered by Anonymous
·
1⤊
1⤋
because they yearn for a father kind, they tend to be harsh and cruel and spoil them. theyre looking for something that could play with them or do things with them thats why they became harsh.
2007-02-26 23:48:07
·
answer #5
·
answered by Anonymous
·
1⤊
0⤋
You just answered it. They didnt have a daddy.
2007-02-26 22:57:31
·
answer #6
·
answered by TastyCookies 3
·
1⤊
2⤋
Probably because instead of saying " Oh, daddy!" the say " Oh, boy"!
Ciao.........John-John.-
2007-03-01 17:58:10
·
answer #7
·
answered by John-John 7
·
0⤊
0⤋
I'ver been trying to figure that one out for a long time. When you pick a best answer, e-mail me...
2007-02-26 22:54:52
·
answer #8
·
answered by dorkmobile 4
·
0⤊
1⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. You'll manage somehow.
2007-02-26 22:54:25
·
answer #9
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
1⤋
no role models that's why.
2007-02-26 22:55:19
·
answer #10
·
answered by emaciated asian chick 4
·
2⤊
0⤋