see i've never had a girlfriend before i always dated guy's and thats it. but ever since i was a young girl i've done things with a girl well no more than kissing. now im 19 yrs old and i have a boyfriend that i have been dating for 2 yrs and we had a lilttle 3 some with me and my best friend. but the thing is he teases me that im bi and id like to say im not what is that that i am bc i know i wouldnt mind doing it agian with a girl. plz help and thanks
2007-02-26 14:46:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are what you are. If you're straight fine. If you're bi, great. If you're bi-curious, whatever. What you call it doesn't matter. The bottom line is you are special and unusual (a fact he clearly doesn't appreciate as his teasing seems to indicate).
Take all the emotions and mechanics out of this and you are left with supply and demand. The number of women who are comfortable with threesomes is very small. The number of guys who fantasize about participating in one is large. I know only two things for sure. First, I know nothing for sure and second, you can TOTALLY do better than this loser. In fact, with another partner of either gender you are much more likely to get the respect as a human being that you deserve.
2007-02-26 14:56:38 · answer #1 · answered by Goofy Foot 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be with a girl to know that you're bi. I knew I was bi long before I ever had sex with anyone. (19 with a woman, 23 with a man.) It's much more a matter of what's between your ears than what's between your legs. What do you look at? What do you dream about? And why do you need to prove anything to your boyfriend, anyhow?
2007-02-26 23:16:50 · answer #2 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If thats the way you feel about it then honey, you are bisexual and theres nothing wrong with that. I've been a bisexual since i was 13 and iam 45 now. So i know what iam talking about. Just enjoy it and believe me your guy will too.
2007-02-27 01:42:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex with another woman without your bf. Get your feelings out there so you can be comfortable with yourself. Let him know, but be aware of his feelings as well. He should not be teasing you. He wants you to be Bi so he can have more 3somes with a lot of g-g action. That would be your call of course. Peace
2007-02-28 01:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by WB2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may be bisexual. The only advice I can give you is to try it one on one with a female. If you like it then you are more than likely bi. Sorry that I can't give you any more advice. Hope what I said helps.
2007-02-26 22:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, he shouldnt tease you about that. You should smack him. You maybe bi, since you wouldnt mine doing it again. And there's nothing wrong with that. Its who you are, and nobody else should matter.
Just open up with yourself, and lay everything down..then you'll see if you are or are not bi.
Good Luck!
2007-02-26 22:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you also gotta think about how much interaction you had with the girl. If you and her just kissed and rubbed. or if yall performed more intimate acts... it makes a world of a difference :)
2007-02-27 02:17:27 · answer #7 · answered by VA Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with kals squeakers. Try it with a girl, just the two of you, if you like that and of course you've been one on one w/your man
and liked it......now u can have the best of both worlds...just like I do.
2007-02-26 23:53:37 · answer #8 · answered by Shelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal, every girl does it, plus why you care if you like having fun and you like your boyfriend and he is happy then why care, and a threesome is every guys fantasy, my didn't end up that well, one of the girl's mom came to her house and me and the other girl hide in the closed and she run to the shower and pretended she was talking a shower, of course me and the girl in the close it finish it, but i'm waiting for another opportunity
2007-02-26 22:51:45 · answer #9 · answered by Da 1 N only 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your boyfriend is a lucky lucky man, and I think this makes you bi.
2007-02-26 22:49:46 · answer #10 · answered by CDog 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋