Theres this girl that I know and I find her very attractive but I'm lesbian and afraid that she won't like me. I at least want to get to know her but I'm shy. But I do want to be close to her, if you know what I mean.
2007-02-26 14:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by â?¥Cameliaâ?¥ 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Wow babe you like asking hard questions dont you. Is she lesbian if so just approach her in a slow soft way if she is straight I would look for sone else babe. If you are not sure what she is then there are two things that can happen and the first is that you will have a partner but the second is that you will get rebuffed and be embarrased. Good luck babe and hope you get what you want.
2007-02-26 15:42:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to have a mutual friend introduce you two perhaps? Other than that just try to talk to her. If she's a nice person she won't freak out and run away screaming so if you don't end up with a romantic partner you'll end up with a new friend (and who knows maybe she can set you up with a hot friend of hers if she's not gay herself :) ).
Good luck :)! We can't all stay shy forever hey?
2007-02-26 15:47:51 · answer #2 · answered by Gene M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like to know this girl why not try talking with her. i understand your shy but start by saying hi and things should fall into place . mabey ask her if she would ever like to go out sometime. I would suggest taking your time and get to know her before making any big moves unless she makes a move first. i hope this helps.......
2007-02-26 15:02:47 · answer #3 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEY IF YOU LIKE HER THEN GO TALK AND SLOWLY BRING UP THE SUBJECT OF YOUR FEELINGS FOR HER.
WHERE THESE PEOPLE GET OFF TRYING TO TELL OTHERS TO DO GODS THING BEATS ME .
THEY ARE ONLY WISHING THEY WERE IN YOUR SHOES , GO AND LOVE HER AS A FRIEND AND WHO KNOWS WHERE IT WILL END
GOD PUT YOU HERE TO MIX AND ENJOY LIFE GO FOR IT GOOD LUCK.
2007-02-26 14:58:43 · answer #4 · answered by popatop 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
whoa. sorry for ppl trying to push their religion on u so much. im christian too but im also a homo. ^_^
i'd just make friendly conversation with her & yea id probably ask her if she has a bf or wut kind of guys she likes, ect. it's best to be subtle cuz u wouldnt want to scare her away, now would u? lol. :P
2007-02-26 15:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by xxyzzq 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggest going to lunch, some place you can talk together. Then ask her about her sexuality, maybe ask if she has a BF.
2007-02-26 14:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by crystal89431 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not get involved with this girl. Leave her alone! You have no right to try to inflict your sickness on others. She will probably kick your a** if you make any perverted suggestions. Go to church and serve God before its too late!!
2007-02-26 14:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Roxi 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Dont destroy your life with the Lord! Do as he says and no man shall lay with man and that goes for women too.
2007-02-26 14:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Don't know what you mean but I do know this.....
God loves you so much that He sent His only Son to Hang on a cross to die so that you wouldn't have to.
2007-02-26 14:36:24 · answer #9 · answered by gtahvfaith 5 · 0⤊ 5⤋