Im 14 years ld and it seems like my parents hate me, they avoid me at all costs, they yell at me for doing nothing to them, they never listen to me, and my life at home is Miserable, but when ever were with extended family or family friends, they act like im a little angel and they'de never stop loving me. I know this family and i go to there house often because i feel loved and respected for who i am there, they pretty much consider me family, and I did go live with them for a week over the summer, i love theses people with my whole heart and feel like thats where im supposed to be. I cant take my house any more, i cant take my parents, what can i do?? please help me, ive felt like this since last May! Every one tells me to hug them or something, make them feel loved, but i cant do it cause i break down wqhen ever they touch me cause i feel contaminated
2007-02-26 13:45:37 · 10 answers · asked by Me 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
This seems a little overexaggerated to me.......nevertheless, try to talk to them about this and tell them how you feel. Try not to be angry or upset, just calmy tell them what's on your mind. I'm sure they'd talk back at least...
2007-02-26 13:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by K 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Sweetie this is flat out mental abuse. It's not good at all. First try talking to the family that you trust and tell them what is going on. They may be able to offer some comfort. Second, strive for the best in your life. Your parents may be out of control but you have to be in control of where you are going. In a few years you can move out and start your life on your own and maybe they will realize how much they miss you after that. My parents were the same way. My dad never let me leave the house for any reason, he constantly tore my room apart looking for drugs which I never did, and he would yell and scream and hit me all the time but never touched or raised his voice to my brother who was under aged drinking and having sex. Now I'm successful, confident, and happy and my parents are actually proud of me. Look to the future okay. And if things get really bad talk to a school counsoler and they can probably help you find a solution or at least give you time to vent and get out your frustrations. There is nothing wrong with seeking help.
2007-02-26 23:55:49 · answer #2 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey sweetie, I went through pretty much the same thing... If talking to them seems to difficult which for did, go to a school or out of school counsellor.. It helped me like crazy and with what i got from it has helped me with issues i face today... try that.. I feel your pain.. But even getting outta the house once in a while helps... make plans.. fun plans not just going to someones house.. keep yourself busy, and always make sure to be the best you can be..
Good Luck... Let me know if you need more help.. I had a really bad time growing up so I can relate
Take Care
2007-02-26 22:04:38 · answer #3 · answered by mom_2_b_again 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, there's usually school counselors that you can go talk to about this. they are trained in psychiatry and everything, and if your parents really are wacko and the counselor asks them for a session to talk about your problems, they have to go because otherwise it would spoil their nice-nice look. and if your parents just don't know how to talk to you, or you've got problems that you just haven't talked to them about, they can sort it out for you. and then your parents would know how you feel, which is better than just not talking about the problem. and if you don't want to go during school because you're embarrassed, just go before/after school and set up an appointment for after school gets out. just tell your parents its for a club or something. hope you think about it, and good luck girl!
2007-02-26 23:57:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you sat down with the " other parents " and talked to them about what your life is like at home ?
I have heard many stories like yours that is why i am a foster mom many of the teens that end up in my house are in the same situation as you are
feel free to e mail me to talk more bout this
2007-02-26 21:55:16 · answer #5 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its really normal. i swear. every teen feels it. and i kno u wont believe me but im a teen too, and i feel the exact same way, just kinda breeze past...do good in skool and dont get into alotta arguments with them. you'll get past this and end up getting along wen ur older, u just need to accept thier personalities and they need to accept urs.
2007-02-26 22:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♣BrownEyedBeauty♣ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell the family u stayed w/ over the summer about ur situation...... they will help u......
good luck⣠and God blessâ¥
2007-02-26 22:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u could either get emancipated or pretend 2 like dem
2007-02-27 00:07:41 · answer #8 · answered by Baldy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to them yell at them to get their attention do whatever swear for all icare jsut make sure ur heard
2007-02-26 22:29:03 · answer #9 · answered by abby 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
call child protective services that is what i did (just kidding)
2007-02-27 01:21:14 · answer #10 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋