How can we know if our husband are telling the truth if he's really not having an affair?

Answer 1

If you know your husband really well, you will know if he is having an affair. Trust is very important to every relationship.

You cannot spy on him; it is very immature thing to do. He will tell you the truth if he is not hiding anything.

I know that it is very scary thing to think about it, it is probably painful to find out if he really did.

To put yourself together, if you truly love him and if he loves you, tell him that you want him to open up everything. Tell him that you are afraid of infidelity.

You can create fidelity promises agreement that you and he will not do it. If he breaks the promise, you either can end it or give another try. Once again, trust can be a very fragile thing.

Remember--develop a closer relationship with him, and make him focus on you only! = D

Answer 2

Look, I know you're upset, but don't make any more mistakes by making a rash decision. Instead, step back and observe the following life lessons. Lesson number 1: Life's not fair. Lesson number 2: Actions have consequences. Lesson number 3: People lie. Lesson number 4: Revenge makes things worse. Lesson number 5: LIfe moves on. I understand that the truth hurts (trust me; I've been there before),and I apologize for seeming so heartless. However, it's best you learn these lessons now so that you don't make similar mistakes in the future. Otherwise, you'll always be miserable. Good luck!

Answer 3

Some men are really crafty - forget checking his cell phone records - he probably bought another "secret" cell phone (prepaid, disposable, or just another cell phone you don't know about) and he will call his new girlfriend on that and she will call him on that number as well. This is all the rage now in extra-marital affairs.

Also, does he keep a secret "love-nest" far away from where you live? If he can afford it - men will keep an apartment out of town for his affairs. If you find out about the affair and he still keeps the apartment - guess what? He's still seeing her and possibly other women.

Divorce him at once. And if your stupid enough to stay with this dog - at least wear a condom for the rest of your life so you don't end up with VD or AIDS or even HPV.

Answer 4

My hubby did. And I found out only because he told me and before that he was acting strange. His attitude changed, and he spent more time away from home. I also caught him in lies about small things. After i was told I hacked his emails and later asked for passwords I didn't know. I check phone records that show numbers and if I don't know who a number is I ask or call it to find out. I came up with alot of things that shouldn't have been and it was hearbreaking but we are still together. I can't say that my ways are best but if you love him and want to stay with him anyway but want to know so that you can get to the bottom of why he is cheating,if in fact he is, then for now I would say keep your eyes and ears open, watch for unusual behavior and changes. If he is staying late at work, or leaving to early for things, making excuses to leave... not calling as usual losing interest... ect. I would be worried. If it is bothering you but you can't find anything that points to him cheating then maybe you need to get marriage therapy and talk to him about it... it may in fact be all in your head.. or there could be other things going on. It could all just be issues you and he are having that you are telling each other and talking about. Trust and Truth in relationships make for happier ones. If you don't tell him and he does not tell you what is wrong then you will only grow apart and that could look like and lead to cheating. Bottom line, get to the core of the problem cheating or not there is something going on with you two that isn't right if yuo are feeling this way. Get help to save your marriage!

Answer 5

That is such a tough one. Believe me, if a guy (or woman) doesn't want to be caught, it's pretty hard to catch them. They can be very convincing.
The way I look at it is, since I'm a generally trusting person, I don't suspect cheating unless there's something that given me reason. And I've been right so I trust my gut feeling.
Has the marriage been rocky lately? Has he been staying out late? Coming home smelling better than when he left? Is he trying out new sex things?
You probably know, in your heart, what's going on. One of the hardest parts of dealing with a husbands affair is the first, honest recognition.

Answer 6

i have been divorced after 8 year marriage and just got remarried. here are the signs to tell if your husband is not cheating on u when he says he going to do something he does it he comes home when he says he is coming home etc.know do u think your husband is cheating because u are asking.if u dont trust him then their is something wrong.trust him

Answer 7

You know him better, if he is acting different lately then something is wrong. Sit down and have a chat with him or start going out and try something unusual on him and see how he responds

Answer 8

Suck his C O C K every time he comes home and if he tastes dirfferent than normal then you'll know for sure. This way you both win.

Answer 9

A stranger can't answer that for you. You need to trust your instincts, first understanding instincts vs. insecurities. If you are sure your instincts are telling you something, confront it. If nothing he says makes sense, then you need to decide what you are willing to believe and what you are willing to ignore.

Answer 10

Get a private investigator. Hack his email. Check his phone.