okay so here the deal i am 22 and married to the man of my dreams 51/2 years ago and we have 2 beautiful baby girls together, but for the last 6 months i have been on the creep. But not with a man with this girl i work with. i have always loved women and men i have never minded ither one in bed. steve my husband is kinda against the whole same sex thing so i have never told him about my liasions with women. now that i have met jada i wont them both... i am a being wrong? how do i tell steve?
2007-02-26 13:35:23 · 10 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if you are talking about my future as in money wise i am very capable on my own since i support him anyway, i know i am wrong cheating but i just dont think i can choose
2007-02-26 13:48:28 · update #1
It is wrong b/c you are married and your husband is opposed to it. You may not have them both so you need to make a decision. Him or her?
2007-02-26 13:39:22 · answer #1 · answered by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes you are wrong. You should have figured all of this out before you decided to get married and have children. Even though it is with a woman, you are still cheating. Deciding you are bi-sexual does not excuse your behavior.
2007-02-26 14:16:24 · answer #2 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should tell your husband the truth but if he is agaist the same thing then he might leave u. because cheating is cheating no matter how u look at. if u truly loved your husband he would not cheat on him. when u get married u take vowels and u break them sorry but that is the truth
2007-02-26 13:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by crystal w 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Just be honest and sit down with your husband and tell him about how you feel about women. I feel that since you are a lesbian or bi sexual he needs to know asap. Honesty and openess about this is the best policy and it is only fair to let him know and it is the right thing to do. You cannot have them both trust me. It will come down to one or the other and you will have to make that choice and dont play the both of them and their emotions. If you cannot tell him face to face then write him a letter or something to tell him.
2007-02-26 13:42:32 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The man of your dreams will probably be hurt very bad if and when he finds out you have been doing this. My wife also had an affair many years ago. He might be willing to forgive you, but you won't be the girl of his dreams anymore.
2007-02-26 13:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
cheating is cheating; gosh, 22, divorced mother of two; you are making a great future for yourself
there is way more to your future dear than how much money you can or will make; that is the least of your problems.
2007-02-26 13:44:07 · answer #6 · answered by abc 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you're cheating no matter which sex it is...You've got two kids! You need to quit thinking about yourself and start thinking about your family!!!! Tell him the truth, if you don't, he'll be more pissed finding out down the road from somebody else..
2007-02-26 13:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Seems like you love your husband but lust over this woman. You are very young, do you want to jeopardize your family life for your daughters to be with a woman. It's hard to find a good man, and it seems like you are willing to give him up!
2007-02-26 15:55:53 · answer #8 · answered by Vegas 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
i'm sorry, but you're quite wrong. you can't have both ways. you need to prioritize what's really important to you.
2007-02-26 13:51:38 · answer #9 · answered by shekinahjireh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please learn some grammar and restate your question.
2007-02-26 13:40:31 · answer #10 · answered by thumper 1 · 2⤊ 3⤋