What should I do?

Question

My son heard my ex over the phone talking to his gf and he said that "I'm your husband" to her and they are not married. He got so upset he was crying. He thought we would get back together but we won't b/c he is a nasty, lying cheater. I am sick of this crap with his gf mouthing off all the time and I am ready to stop the phone calls all together. what can I do?

Renate is completely wrong. He does call me and he calls our son too. He was talking to our son on the phone and not paying attention that he could hear him and was talking to her. and I listened in on thecall since I can't trust him and he did say that.

And I don't ask my kid to spy. You are a very mean woman and I guess you stole someones man and have to deal with his baby's mother and you are bitter. Don't take it out on me.
I am seeking advice you are are spitting your crap out on me! Don't give out advice anymore it's horrible aand wretched.

Answer 1

I would try having a talk with your ex first. Then if that doesn't help stop the phone calls.

Answer 2

It is not healthy for your son to be torn between your rage and your ex's inconsiderations. You need to act like adults and talk about the impact YOUR relationship is having on him. You need to agree that when you are talking about "Dad" to your son, that you speak positively and when your husband has contact, he understands your sons sensativity to the fact that Dad is not living at home. Please, for the sake of the boy, forget how pissed you are at the gf and start a new relationship with dad so your son will grow up in a more stable environment.

Answer 3

Your question is not comprehensible because we cannot tell if your husband was talking to his girlfriend (which I think is the case) or you. If he was talking to the GF then it is NOT your business.

If he is calling you (which I think he is not and is your real problem) then get a protective order against him if he won't stop.

Quit asking the kid to spy on the Father.