If one loves a taken partner, what is the option of people in love but cant be together due to circumstance beyond their control and the heart does not want to move on...'Charles and camila' proved that Love does not die, it is just surpressed to keep diginity, but deep down it will always be there to please the others for the position one holds. Who is to blame?
2007-02-26 13:32:12 · 11 answers · asked by lulu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Please be real, all this;' when you love you have to...... and should .....is not realistic. I'd like to hear from realistic people who've been there, not people who just watch movies and think that is life, coz its not.
This is not for juliet and Romeo, its real life...
2007-02-26 13:52:03 · update #1
Okay, I am a real flawed person and this is my realistic response.
I currently want someone that I can't have, they are "taken" or unavailable, but not necessarily with another person. I believe they may return my feelings, at least to a certain degree.
I am not going to pursue the relationship because I believe it would be wrong. Perhaps the little I have already done is wrong. I don't know.
Love does not die, but you can love someone without being with them. Love is never wasted. Sometimes if you really love someone, you love them enough to let them live the life they are meant to be leading, even if it is a life without you.
2007-02-26 14:01:24 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Charles and Camilla made a “choice” based on what was more important to them.
Love is never wasted but it can be unhealthy for yourself and those you love. It can stop you both from moving on with your life and finding happiness.
You can continue with life and love someone but things can be kept in their place. You can love someone intensely but you have the choice of growing and maturing or stagnation and scraping by.
CPB encouraged a lot in that unhealthy relationship and damaged many people.
2007-02-28 13:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by demarkation_line 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would compare it to like having a disease... you'll never get rid of it, it'll always be there but you have to live your life, meet people and have fun instead of concentrating on just that all the time!
You have all your lives ahead of you, there may come a time (like Charles & HER) when you can be together and you've held on for that moment then you'll be blisfully happy.
But what if there's someone out there, unattached and waiting for you who'll make you even more happy??? Don't block them out just for one person. LIVE LIFE my friend!
You might have to wait till ur 60, but if it's meant to be then God will give you what you want.
2007-02-27 02:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by SEJ71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone you will do everything in your power to be with them. What circumstances are these that are beyond your control? If you are with someone else, when you love another, then that is the choice you made without being forced!
2007-02-27 01:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Laralyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on. You never know .... there may be another our there....but you never know until you move forward. If it was meant to be....then later in life the 2 of will find one another and go from there.
As it sounds right now, it seems that you are infatuated with someone. It is that I want what I cannot have.
2007-02-26 22:08:27 · answer #5 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love some one and cannot be with that person for what ever reasons.
Does not mean you stop loving that person.
You do so, all your life.
That is true love and you should let that person be. That is an act of self less ness.
2007-02-27 03:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by CG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a nice place to be, you sound too romantic to me, that is guaranteed to make life miserable. Try to be more real, enjoy what you have and learn to live without what you can't.
2007-02-27 02:02:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if two peolpe love each other and want to be together there is nothing that should be allowed to stop it - no one should please others when it comes to love afterall lifes too short
2007-02-26 21:41:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if this person belongs to someone else, then u should back off!
how would u feel if u had someone and someone else wanted him? u'd hate it right? honestly u should move on and look at people who are available.. its kinda forbidden territory to look at another womens man! well thats wat i think anyway!
2007-02-27 03:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by ღ♥eyeღℓash♥ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got me stumped.
Cupid?
2007-02-26 21:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by kyle.keyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋