2007-02-26 13:29:57 · 13 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
men..what does it mean????
2007-02-26 13:31:46 · update #1
If you want to surprise your husband tell him you want 5 men. One for the your MOUTH, one for your P U S S Y, one for your
B U T T HOLE and a C O CK FOR EACH HAND. Tell him he has to watch.
2007-02-26 14:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by Jack M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he has a fantasy of being the center of attention of two women. It's a definite ego stroke as well as a huge self-esteem booster for him.
Does it mean he loves you less? No. Does it mean he isn't satisfied with your sex life? No. It just means he has this fantasy and he at least trusts you enough to be able to ask you without the fear of you freaking-out out of insecurity and jealousy.
Should you do it? Well, that depends on whether or not you want to. Is a FMF a fantasy you have too? Even if it isn't a top fantasy, does it sound like a good time? Is the idea of giving your hubby this fantasy as big a turn-on for you as it is for him to have it? If the answers to these questions are "yes" then you are probably ready to move the the next level and talk about it in more depth with your hubby.
Then, the next hurdle is finding someone to do it with. Sometimes friends are great places to look, other time's it's just weird.
There is some great advice about this on The Swingers Board in the Swingers Advice section. Check it out.
2007-02-27 05:37:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this other person he wants to bring in a male for female?
If it were a woman then I would say he would love to have sex with her in hopes you'll enjoy it, and to allow him is threes someone often with her. Or maybe he’s hoping you would enjoy it, and would allow him to have sex with her when he's in the mood and your not?
If were a male friend? He would love to see you having sex with someone other then him, but someone he knows and can trust. (Some guys are into this.) 2. He would like try being with a guy but doesn’t wanted you to think and less of him so this a way for him to go about it?
But the last thing I can't think of is, maybe he just trying to put some fire back in to the bedroom?
I would sat him down and talk it over with him, see what's on his mind, ask him to please came clean, tell him your mind is all over the place and it's not in a good place right now, sat back and see what happens.
Good luck
2007-02-26 14:00:50 · answer #3 · answered by choiceav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That your husband has honestly voiced the "fantasy" every red blooded male has but is often afraid to ask for. I would say it makes him normal... lol Just because he asks you to have a 3-some does not mean you have to agree. I do not agree that he just wants to have sex with your friend. If this is all he wanted, he would do that instead. Many men want to see their wives with another women. The person he felt YOU would be most comfortable with, increasing the chances of you saying yes, is your friend.
If you are not comfortable, tell him and if you want to know his true intentions, ask him why he wants to have a 3-some with a particular friend.
PS... agree with him with the stipulation that after THAT 3-some.... you get to pick one of HIS friends for a 3-some.... I bet he changes his tune... lol
2007-02-26 13:49:02 · answer #4 · answered by RaLoh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take some toys to bed first and try them on him and say thats what a threesome would feel like
2007-02-26 14:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by allwayswondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, my husband ask about the same thing over and over.....I think it's an excuse for him to dip his tool on somebody else without him feeling a guilt. I sometimes feel like it's ok but mostly I don't, bottomline it should not be a natural thing to do....but then again I can always say no, so heck yeah its NO!!!! hope he is not reading this one though.....lol
2007-02-26 13:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He surely has fantasy for someone to hve a 3some. He is also may b tired of sex with you. Try to get some newness in your sex life,. naughty lingerie, expose some sexy parts etc. b creative. is he asking for a FFM or MMF? I am sure it is FFM. Tell him that you are ok provided next time it is MMF and you chose teh guy! He will feel threatened immediately because you can have that sex any time with out his knowlegde later as well. Pl note to handle this issue carefully as he may decide to **** that babe in private if she is OK and wtih out you knowing
tread carefully
x
tom
bh37bh37@yahoo.com
2007-02-27 02:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by bh37bh37 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That he's interested in laying your friend and can't think of any other way to do it without being tattled on, so most convenient smoke screen is to invite you to the party.
2007-02-26 13:38:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww guys are like that. I ask my wife that all the time just to see what she will say. It's just talk if she said yes! I would be worried..
2007-02-26 13:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by chyatt@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him who the 3rd person is going to be, because it isn't going to be me. Then I ask him who his divorce attorney will be.
2007-02-26 13:37:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋