Virgo Man and Aries Lady?

Question

He is right on the cusp of Virgo and Libra. She is right smack in the middle of Aries. How do they find happiness?

Answer 1

Virgo and Aries

When Aries and Virgo come together, they may at first think they have nothing in common and not much to learn from each other. This is a relationship that takes time to develop, and each partner must learn to understand where the other is coming from. In many ways, Aries and Virgo are opposites: Aries is brash, dominant, and aggressive, always jumping into new things, usually impatient. Virgo is detail oriented and quiet, even shy, and works patiently toward goals. Because of their many differences, Aries and Virgo can learn a great deal from each other once they look beyond the surface.

Early in the relationship, Aries and Virgo may see nothing in each other but their faults. Aries may seem too brash, and Virgo may seem fussy. But once they stop learning about each others' faults and begin focusing on their strengths, they'll discover a great deal. Aries teaches Virgo about fun and excitement, about the spontaneity that is often missing in Virgo's life. Virgo teaches Aries patience and attention to detail, the knowledge that the little things are important too. Aries may feel Virgo is overcritical, but they will teach their partner to take things less seriously. Virgo may accuse Aries of being ill-mannered and impulsive, but can teach them to be polite and value hard work.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars, and Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. The soldiers of Mars want to rush out and fight, without preplanning or strategizing. Conversely, Virgo wants to analyze everything and work out all the details before committing to action. Both Signs need to take the time to see the value of their partner's approach; Aries can teach Virgo to be less critical and more spontaneous, at the same time gaining stability from Virgo's even keel.

Aries is a Fire Sign, and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Aries begins a new project based on whim and interest, while Virgo is more analytical. Virgo will weigh all options before devoting their serious effort, while Aries simply sees what they want and dives in! Although these partners may find it difficult to walk in their partner's shoes, when they work together they make an excellent business team and an efficient couple based on their differing approaches.

Aries is a Cardinal Sign, and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. Virgo doesn't need to be the leader or the boss; when they are given a viable suggestion and see a role for them self in it, they are glad to follow the suggestion. Aries, on the other hand, is the one who makes the suggestion in the first place and assigns roles to the other participants. Their lack of conflict over roles helps Aries and Virgo work on the same project with great success.

The best aspect of the Aries-Virgo relationship is their great effectiveness as a team -- business or personal. Metaphorically as well as literally, Aries gets attention and respect by being out in the field doing sales and marketing, while Virgo works hard behind the scenes, balancing the books and following up on details that no longer interest Aries. Their personalities, opposite in so many ways, make for a highly complementary relationship.

good luck x

Answer 2

This is going to be really easy for me to answer, since i'm an Aries female and my boyfriend is a Virgo.

First of all to find if he's either a Libra or a Virgo , you need to do his birth chart. Know his time of birth and date(alabe.com).
People born on a cusp are either mistaken for being one sign when they're actually another. If he's obsessive compulsive, critical and serious most of the time then he's a Virgo. If he's laid back or just plain lazy and freespirited then he's a Libra.
Sometimes cusp-borns can have both traits which in this case is good for this Aries. Libra is Aries' polar opposite air helps fire burn. It's a good match.

I may be a little impulsive and my boyfriend, too compulsive. No matter what you hear (what I always here is that Aries/Virgo is the worst match EVER) which isn't true. They key for Aries and Virgo to be happy is understanding. You both can feel like it's never going to work, but usually it's like that with every couple one time or another. The couple just needs to work on the problems they may have. I have learned to turn to astrology when I have problems by studying my partner's sign, it will lead to better understanding for sure.

Good luck.
-An Aries with a Libra rise
with a Virgo that has a Gemini rise.

Answer 3

I am an Aries woman married to a Virgo man and we are partners, a team. I think this works because we are opposites, so we learn from each other. One of the things I think that helps our marriage is that we got married in our mid-forties and are more willing to work out our problems. What I like about my Virgo man is that he takes care of me. He makes sure my car is warm in the morning, does the dishes when I'm tired, does things with me, I'm having the time of my life!

Answer 4

virgo man aries lady

Answer 5

try yahoo horoscopes...i'm an aries 4/17 and my virgo is 9/19...and what i was told is to let the little things go and they will work as a team...you have to feel each other out...he's very miticulous and i'm not in the least. He's very reserved and i'm not at all..we are actually totally opposite in most ways but we manage to understand each other and how we react to the situations that life gives you.

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Aries & Virgo

When Aries and Virgo come together in a love match, they may think at first that they have nothing in common and nothing to learn from one another. This relationship takes time to develop as each partner must learn to understand where the other is coming from. Aries and Virgo can seem like total opposites: While Aries is brash, dominant and aggressive, always jumping into new things and almost always impatient, Virgo is detail-oriented and quiet, even shy, and works patiently toward long-term goals. Aries's energy is fiery and impetuous while Virgo's is much slower and more grounded. It's these very differences, however, that can teach Aries and Virgo so much, once they just look beneath one another's surfaces to see what lies beneath.

Early in the relationship, Aries and Virgo may see nothing but one another's faults. Virgo thinks Aries is way too brash, and Aries thinks Virgo is extremely fussy. But if they focus on one another's strengths instead, they'll discover a great deal. Aries teaches Virgo about fun and excitement, about the spontaneity that is often missing in Virgo's life. Virgo teaches Aries patience and attention to detail, the knowledge that the little things -- and moments -- are important too. Aries can teach their Virgo lover to take things less seriously. Virgo can teach Aries to be polite and value hard work.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. Aries wants to rush out and fight without wasting time preplanning or strategizing. Conversely, Virgo wants to analyze everything and work out all the details before acting. These are such opposite approaches that strife can result. Both Signs must make a conscious effort to learn from one another's method rather than letting their partner's natural rhythm bother to the point of distraction.

Aries is a Fire Sign and Virgo is an Earth Sign. Where Aries is all fiery impetuosity, Virgo is grounded practicality. Virgo weighs all the options before devoting any serious effort, while Aries simply sees what they want and dives in! This is true both in career and in personal relationships -- which can be something of a stumbling block. If Aries has decided it's Virgo they want, they might be frustrated for some time to come, waiting for Virgo to make up their mind about whether the relationship is a good idea.

Aries is a Cardinal Sign and Virgo is a Mutable Sign. Virgo doesn't need to be the leader or the boss; they're glad to follow another's suggestion once they decide it's a viable one. Aries, on the other hand, wants to make those suggestions -- every time. This is a beneficial dynamic if these two Signs are working as a team toward a common goal.

What's the best aspect of the Aries-Virgo relationship? Their great effectiveness as a team -- business or personal. Their personalities, opposite in so many ways, make for a highly complementary relationship.

and the other:

Aries & Libra

When Aries and Libra come together in a love affair, the inherent polarity of the Zodiac is invoked. Aries and Libra are directly opposite one another in the Zodiac -- 180 degrees apart. Each Sign possesses qualities that the other lacks; combined with Libra's natural yen for harmony, this can be a relationship that enjoys great balance. Aries is the Sign of Self while Libra is the Sign of Partnership, and the differences continue: Aries is impulsive, excitable and ready to jump right into something new and exciting, while Libra is indecisive, peace-loving and prefers a calm, smooth approach. Aries can learn from Libra that their own way isn't necessarily the best way.

These two Signs share the great sexual attraction common to all Signs opposite in polarity. At the same time, though this pair's connection is amazing when it's good, it can be extremely challenging when it's bad. All polarities have energies that tend to tangle or knot if understandings can't be reached. As a combination, Aries and Libra are well-balanced. Charming, cultured Libra can teach brash Aries something about style. Libra prizes harmony in a relationship and will go to great lengths to maintain it. Aries is very decisive and can teach indecisive Libra about relying on intuition for answers.

Aries is ruled by the Planet Mars and Libra is ruled by the Planet Venus. This is a great match, as these are the Planets of Passion and Love, respectively. Venus and Mars go well together as they're the two sides of the love relationship coin. They're universally recognized as male and female and this relationship is a good balance of masculine and feminine energy. Venus is about the beauty of romance while Mars is about the passion of romance. What a good combination!

Aries is a Fire Sign and Libra is an Air Sign. Air fuels Fire and helps it grow and spread. Aries can have a very positive effect on Libra's growth, ideas and progress; Aries can help Libra put their ideas into action. Working together can be challenging at times, however, due to their polarity. Aries's fast-paced, impetuous approach to projects may conflict with Libra's more balanced, intellectual approach. However, both Signs have wide-ranging interests, and at the end of a long, active day, Aries can come home full of interesting stories to tell the more cerebral Libra!

Aries and Libra are both Cardinal Signs. They both have a lot of initiative -- but lack in follow-through. They both tend to start things they're never going to finish, whether it's a job, a project, a relationship ... Aries will appear to be the leader because of their energy and forceful nature, but Libra leads from an intellectual standpoint. Both Signs want to be in charge, but Aries uses force and sometimes intimidation to get what they want while Libra uses charm and sometimes manipulation. Compromise is essential to this relationship's health. Diplomatic Libra has a much easier time with compromise than does Aries, who strongly dislikes yielding to another person, viewing it as submission. Libra may have to give in more often to Aries's wishes in order to keep the peace that they so cherish.

What's the best aspect of the Aries-Libra relationship? The harmony resulting from the union of Venus and Mars. The balance between self and other represented by this polarity is a great learning experience for both Signs. Each brings to the relationship what the other is missing, making for a wonderful balance.

Answer 6

Astrology is stupid. AGREED.

Answer 7

they stop worrying about stupid astrology