I know everyone says that time heals all...I am pregnant and My ex fiance left me after 7 years...He moved out of state to take a job with his father..2000 miles. He is convinced that he will be a father to our baby but I just don't see how he can so far away. I am heartbroken and I am trying not to stress. I feel stupid because I do want him back..It's so hard to give up. I have taken up scrapbooking and alot of stuff to pass my time but it is all so hard. I was wondering if anyone had any ideas how to handle this? He says he loves me and the baby and he misses me...but yet he isn't home. I know there isn't another woman...I don't know why I would want a man back that left me pregnant but I do..So any ideas?
2007-02-26 13:15:18 · 11 answers · asked by angelsdeath420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I didn't get pregnant for a solution pal. It wasn't planned. He has been wanting a baby for years and I already lost one and my Dr. told me that my uterus was so messed up that I would never be able to have kids. So I took this as a sign from God. Thank you. !
2007-02-26 13:21:25 · update #1
He left for the job then called me and broke up with me..
2007-02-26 14:58:34 · update #2
I won't use the "time heals all" theory on you but I will say that "distance makes the heart grow fonder". This might not be such a bad thing. Sounds like he does love you and perhaps the distance will give him time to decide what he really wants. He might not know it now, but if you be patient and keep moving forward, you may be presently surprised when he comes knocking at the door armed with baby carriage and plan to come home to his family. Good luck
2007-02-26 13:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine left me as well. Think about the joy of holding your baby. Pray that God be a constant presence in your life. He will give you a peace that noone else in your life will understand. You have to climb the mountain to get to the top, so get climbing and hold on tight. When he sees that you are doing well by yourself, he will know what he gave up. My son is 4 now. I moved out of state. I own a catering business. I just won a house!! Everything is good without him.
2007-02-26 13:23:25 · answer #2 · answered by adrgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dose what he says to you he is not a liar, but if you really want to not be heartborken. Don't stand around for him if he is not coming back because its a waste of time for you and your child. Think of how you could get a job and buy a house. Think of how you want your baby to have a father, but think of how you could find a guy who will always be with you and not running off somewhere.
2007-02-26 13:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by cmc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice give him time and you are right if he truly loved u he would of never leaved u in the first place. but is this his first child?maybe he is stressed out or scared maybe he talk the job with his dad so he could have a job to support u and the baby. be honest and talk to him and tell him how upset u are. i would say hang out with your family and friends and go shopping for the baby talk 2 someone
2007-02-26 13:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by crystal w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will not be able to tell u the thank you to deal w/ur heartache yet i can tell u how i'm not dealing w/mine. Me, I'm42 been in love with a similar guy for 15 years -love of my existence- he has desperate that we would be extra effective off "not mutually". It extremely kills me so i comprehend what ur dealing with it does whether get extra effective. stay removed from her for awhile I promise u it gets much less annoying. faster or later the sunlight does start to polish in basic terms a splash brighter and the nights do not look incredibly as dark. i could additionally promise u this-if she replace into meant to be your "one" that's going to be if not permit it pass.
2016-10-16 13:50:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take walks around the block, excersise, call a family member to say hi, call a friend, go out somewhere nice and relaxing, go swimming, the beach, a small vacation, anything that you could possibly think of. you have plenty of people who do love you, so try spending as much time as possible to do anything you can to spend time with those people, you'll find yourself becoming a lot more happy and having him not come across your mind as much. try to give this time and i wish you the best of luck.
2007-02-26 13:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, I feel your pain, my wife had an affair and left me with 4 kids, I had a very hard time moving on with my life, till one day God touched my heart, I gave my heart to Jesus....wow....so much love pouring into my soul....just knowing how much Jesus loves you is so awesome.....God bless
2007-02-26 13:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would the guy love u and leave u...i would tell u to just pick up ur life and go on...because he doesnt sound like hes worth it....if he really loved u and ur child...he wouldnt leave u in the first place...and he wouldnt break the marriage....forget him and focus on giving ur child the best =]
2007-02-26 13:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by meirulin1134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you give him a chance wait for him,he might need this job, I am sure he misses you and will be back, if he leaves you then you can freat.
2007-02-26 13:18:57 · answer #9 · answered by sillygirl227 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did he leave you or just move for the job? if he just left for the job then why can't you move to be with him. if he left you then see first comment
2007-02-26 14:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by simplyme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋