so my bestfriend joe is comming from arizona to cali to help me out with the kids for a bit.
i have known him since i was 14 ( i met him through my husband)
he has always been there my husband and joe are friends also and my husband is in germany for a bit with his family and i plan on having joe stay with us( me and my kids 3 days and 3 years)
the house is big enough.
is that inaproprate?
2007-02-26 13:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by Hallie L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes joe and i are strictly friends and have been for 8 years.
he knows my little girl(not my baby casue i just had him) and she knows she has a daddy and he is away for a little bit she also knows that joe has been mommys friend for a long time.
my husband knows that he will be over to give me a break from the kids for a few weeks.
2007-02-26 13:27:06 · update #1
the 3 days and 3 years are the ages of my children.
sorry to confuse.
2007-02-26 13:28:44 · update #2
Is there a reason for it to be inappropriate? Does your husband know? Is he ok with Joe staying with you and the kids? Do you and Joe have some "history"? Does Joe know things can only be platonic? Does your husband trust you? Does your husband trust Joe? Do you trust Joe? Do you feel threatened by Joe?
Adults of the opposite sex can co-habitate without doing the "wild thing". Really.
Have a frank talk with Joe before he comes over and explain your concerns. If he really is a friend to you and your husband, he'll understand.
Good Luck...
2007-02-26 13:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by RepoMan18 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i woulnd know much but it is a weird situation that may lead to really big trouble.....does ur husbend know????oh well my personal opinion is...dont do it ......since i woulnd like having a wife (when i get one....since i am still young)with a mam in the house withoutme in it,not even my brother and much less a friend,and it also sounds kind of inappropriet =P well i hope the little i did helped even tough it probably didnt =(
2007-02-26 13:22:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sure the situation will work out 4 u. No it is not inapropriate You have been friends a long time
2007-02-26 13:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days or 3 years?
if he just just a friend, it's ok. if it's 3 years, ask him to help out with the bills, nothing is free. and utilities could be expensive, groceries.
2007-02-26 13:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by ~muffun~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think so as long as joe is just a friend
2007-02-26 13:18:24 · answer #5 · answered by AW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no why would it be,as long as ur husband knows
2007-02-26 13:23:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it might end up with u and joe back in arizona..if he,s not gay...........have fun..lol
2007-02-26 13:19:38 · answer #7 · answered by da8man2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's not inappropriate but sleeping with him will be.
2007-02-26 13:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your house is big enough dont worry. and its not innopropriate.
2007-02-26 13:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by soccermolis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes just a friend.....
2007-02-28 13:08:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋