I'm deeply in love with this guy... and he's out and everything, and even though I've asked him out months ago I can't get him out of my mind =( I'm not sure what to do. I've tried being friends with him but he just ignores me, and I know I don't want to be with someone like that but I can't help but notice every now and then that I'm thinking about him. He's a great guy, I just want him to notice me and treat me like a friend, suggestions?
2007-02-26 13:14:06 · 7 answers · asked by jedilounge1 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I hate to be the voice of reality but if he hasn't accepted you as a friend by now he's not going to. I am sorry. I know what it is to love someone with your entire being and have him turn away from you and disrespect you.
It's not easy but time will make you forget him. If you delete him as a contact from your messenger, address book, and as a buddy or pal on any websites, it'll be easier for you to forget him and move on. No, the pain won't vanish overnight but in time he will fade from your consciousness.
In the meantime, go out with existing friends, go have fun, and try to make new friends, hopefully with someone with whom you'll fall in love and he with you. Good luck and Big Bear Hugs.
2007-02-26 14:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes get over him and move on. Don't torture yourself anymore by sticking to your "love" for him when he wont even give you the time of day.
That is sick man, how can you love some one who treats you like that .............go for some therapy.
2007-02-27 06:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by Crampy Grampy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start doing little things to be nice to him. Eventualy he'll notice you
2007-02-26 23:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it out. Let him know cuz u mite just be waisting ur time trying to get him to notice u...u got nothing to lose just tell him
2007-02-26 21:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by sexylezbian956 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will you guys do a 3 way with me
2007-02-26 21:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you tryed talking with him and shairing all this with him. i'm sure it would help alot.
2007-02-26 23:07:04 · answer #6 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel about him !!!
2007-02-26 21:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋