2007-02-26 12:59:04 · 12 answers · asked by C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Alot of times people read into things to much. You might think she's mad at you, and maybe the truth is she just need a little space and time for herself. Don't hound her about it. Just keep making attempts at doing the normal things you guys do. If she shuts you down, then back off. Let her come to you.
If you really don't know why she'd be mad at you, then your being self-concious and trying to figure out what could you have done. Don't do that, she could be mad about alot of other things, and she just doesn't feel like taking about it right now, and it doesn't help when her friend starts worrying its about him.
One other thing, when you talk to her, tell her you notice she seems angry or upset, and tell her you don't know whats going on but if she wants to talk your there for her.
2007-03-06 09:32:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kellie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't much you can do until she decides to tell you. But if you really feel she's mad at you and really can't think of a reason, call her up and ask if you can drop by. When you get there ask her up front (with just the two of you) what's up. Tell her you are her friend and deserve to know. If she still says "nothing" then you have to accept it and move forward. Tell her you are sorry if you've done something that has angered her and want the friendship to continue. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-03-06 13:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The operative word here you think she is mad at you instead of you know she is mad at you. But if you ever really think a friend is mad at you just tell them you think they are mad at you and you want to know if that is true or not. Then if they say yes then ask what did you do , to make them mad at you. If you are friends then never be afraid to ask a friend any question.
2007-03-06 12:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by nunya n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that if you thought about this for a while, you would remember something stupid that you did or said. Maybe it was a tone of voice. Young girls are sometimes real touchy about certain things. Also you must be a mind reader at times. Hope you figure this out soon
2007-03-06 12:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in most situations where the worngdoer knows what made that person angry, the victim will either avoid and cool off, or will confront and work things out....i am not saying anyhting about breaking friendships, because true friends will work things and not give up on it.
anyway in this case, voice to your friend that you feel she is being aloof...avoiding you... and ask her on the reason...it may not be anger, it may not have anything to do with you...
you need to ask, dont speculate and wonder....
2007-02-26 21:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
r u really very smart and sexy dashing and cool. if yes ten any one would be mad at u and if not then she would like to develop a phisical relationship with you and if u dan't like the gal then start ignoring her or try to have a girlfriend which could make the gal jealeous and she would leave u
2007-03-06 06:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Aashi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not mad at you...she just needs her space thats all. Ask her. If she doesnt respond, leave her alone. Let her cool off. It might just be a case of PMS!!!! just kidding. :)
2007-03-06 17:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by Cyndi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? If you are really friends, let it go and talk about at another time, just relax and go talk to another friend who is not upset.
Later...
2007-03-06 18:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by lex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her friends wahts bugging her and if they dont say then leave it alone until she wants to talk
2007-03-06 18:50:29 · answer #9 · answered by fever_ricious13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask her anymores why she's mad im a girl and GIRLS ARE REALLY PROUD your wasting your time
2007-03-06 18:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by dhc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋