My boyfirend and i have been going out for one year and 5 months. he was going out with his ex for one year and 3 months. Now all of a sudden she has his email address. Lately him and i dont have time because he works and we both go to school. She has time to mail him a lot and the type of work he does allows him to reply back quickly too. They broke up cause she cheated and i never cheated on him. She has money but no education and i have no money but i am studing in collage. I am afriad that because i dont have the time for him that his ex may have the time and they will start goging out and that he would leave me for her. Do you think that would happen or am i just worring too much?
2007-02-26 12:49:54 · 12 answers · asked by empressbebet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If it happens, you can consider it part or your education, too.
2007-02-26 12:53:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what when you are in a relationship you have to make time for each other. You are never too busy. You can find a way. Don't worry about the ex. That is stress you don't need. Concentrate on your man. If you have a little time with each other, you still have that time. My ex cheated on me. I still keep in contact. Would I ever go back, never. But I spent a long time with him. He is important to me and I love him. When we get caught up in what we are doing, like life, there are things we can do to make sure our partners know we love them. We can send a text, we can leave a single flower for them or a sticky note on the mirror that says I love you. Small things mean so much. We are too busy for each other is not an excuse. Find a time where you both can spend a little bit together.
2007-02-26 12:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just worring too much. But even if not, it is better to have this happen now, than later! I mean, if he is going to re-kindle a relationship with an old flame, wouldn't you rather him do it now, rather than when you are married, have 3 kids & a morgage?
I am kind of supprised he would even be so bodacious as to e-mail her back & forth--since she is an ex, who hurt him before, and proved she cannot be trusted in fidelity...but the fact he does not hide this cyberspace relationship from you is somewhat encouraging. It may be interesting to see if he is open enough to let you view random samples of what they write to each other--is it totally innocuous, or hot & heavy love letters?
Lots of Luck, sweety....
2007-02-26 13:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by grapejuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way that he will end up with his ex-girlfriend it depends on if he still has feelings for her. Do not be insecure, I could understand that you have feelings for him however, if he is chatting with her on line he is disrespecting you and you can always get a better man.
You should let him know how you feel..Asks him, how he would feel if you was communicating with your ex? If it is met too be you guys will be together if not, you will meet a better man. Good Luck to you!!!!
2007-02-26 13:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by Vicky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably just worrying about it too much. If you feel really strongly about the issue, ask him about it and tell him that you're worried because you care so much. He should understand where you're coming from.
2007-02-26 12:53:14 · answer #5 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to believe you're "studing in collAge". I definitely wouldn't like him emailing his ex constantly but it's a good test I suppose to see if he is loyal to you."
2007-02-26 12:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your fears probably will not happen, but either way you are definately worrying too much. just enjoy the relationship as much as possible day by day, what will happen will happen, but don't ruin today by worrying to much about tomorrow.
2007-02-26 12:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both work and go to school how is it he has time to for his ex and not time for you. how did she get his email address. he might be after the money.
keep your eyes and ears open.
2007-02-26 12:55:52 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is most likely already seeing her. Sorry, but I would take bets on it.
2007-02-26 12:54:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't spell, stay in school. are you sure it's not you that has no education?
2007-02-26 12:58:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋