for a single woman to keep in contact.
2007-02-26 12:36:24 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you just want to be friends, you should be able to carry on the friendship in front of his wife. If the friendship is going on behind her back, there is more here than meets the eye. Have a good night.
2007-02-26 12:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sue F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As always, it depends.
If you've known the man before he was married and are friends with his wife, then yes. Married people do have contact with the opposite sex.
If you did not know the man until he got married, then no. Do not keep contact.
Think about this though- why is it important that you tell us he is married if there is no affair going on?
2007-02-26 20:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by anggelgal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not OK and you already know it. He is married so keep your distance. if you do not want to have an affair why do you want to keep in contact with a man who is already married anyway. Are you looking for trouble?
2007-02-26 20:44:03 · answer #3 · answered by CindyLu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course its ok. just because you talk to/ email/ see a a married man doesnt mean you have to be having an affair with them. its ok to have friends/ communications with people who are married.
2007-02-26 20:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by tales 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. You should make sure that HE does not intend to have an affair with you. If he does, then there is a chance that his wife will be hurt by this friendship, even if you have done nothing wrong.
2007-02-26 20:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by firefly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not really as i feel it may send him wrong signals and does his wife know about you and his friendship with you? Or is he keeping this a secret from her? I think it is best that you stop all contact with him since he is married. JMHO
2007-02-26 21:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are an ex girlfriend or wife its not at all ok for u to keep in touch with him if you are just a friend and you call once in a while then yes its just fine here is the deal my husband does not speak to his ex much and they have a kid they speak only about the kid thats it or I would not be here.He has friends but they are women who are married and he is friends with their husband's and I like all of them and totally know that its only a friendly conversation so thats ok with me but ex girlfriend's out of the question.
2007-02-26 21:15:22 · answer #7 · answered by samwise25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends....I think you should ask yourself....If I was in a relationship and my husband was talking to a female on the side without my knowledge how would I feel? If you are confident that it would be okay then I would say continue as friends.
2007-02-26 20:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by Stacy T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if his wife knows your only friends there shouldnt be a problem but if he is keeping you a secret than there is a problem.lol
2007-02-26 20:40:48 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Imagine yourself trying to explain your realtionship to his wife if she ever catches you two together. Do you think she will listen?
People get hurt this way be careful. He might not have the same feelings you do and things do change quickly.
2007-02-26 20:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by casa4me90 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋