i have been figthing a lot with my boyfriend (we have 1 and a half years) and we always talk through msn messenger because we cant see each other every day, but when i talk to him , he answers me in the next half hour because he is playing computer games, and i am sick of it we never talk because of his games and whenever we do he is always agresive because this games make him tense and he says that i pressure him when im not, i told him that i was sick of this situation and apparently he has choosen to keep his games over me, i dont know what to do, this has been going on since like half a year or more, please help, tell me what to do
2007-02-26 12:36:22 · 14 answers · asked by chikis*trikis 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Drop him. Why would you do anything else? Dating is to find a guy that makes good husband and father material down the road, it is not for trying to make it work with losers like little boys that would rather play with themselves than you. Dump the boy, find a MAN.
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2007-02-26 12:42:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just young. This is the kind of crap you have to put up with until you grow up. It's a ***** but there's not much you can do about it. Don't you realize how selfish a person is when they just sit and play video games for hours everyday. He needs to get a life but believe me he wont. He will be just like he is 20 years from now. Move on find someone who can have an intelligent conversation or someone who is a people person. Believe me you'll have much more fun. Let this guy entertain himself. That's what he is good at. Move on!!
2007-02-26 21:12:06 · answer #2 · answered by Ricky: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how important you are to him. I guess u can read between the lines, i feel that a relationship should be in a 'courting 'phase where u are important all the time. And u should respect his avid interest in video games, however, if the situation is always like that everytime , it is time that u talk to him., i think its time to actually think about the relationship, does it really exist. Dont expose yourself to being used and hurt. take care.
2007-02-26 20:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by ♦cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you, id dump him. For all you know he may be doing more than just playing computer games. If you hasnt got time for you now....he will never make any for you in the future.
Dont waste your time over someone who is not willing to make time for you. If his games are making him tense or irritable he shouldnt be playing it. Is he taking drugs or somthing??? As pple could get aggressive, short-tempered and agitated when they are on drugs.
Move on girl!!!
Good luck!!
2007-02-26 20:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by GenuineGemini 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good sign of a better future,
what you're seeing now is your life ahead if
you'll be with him, you'll still end up going
anywhere if you take that risk.
your heart says you love him be patient,
put up with him, then your mind says,, GO . . .
then follow that . . your mind must always be
above your heart. your heart right now can
mislead you..
Break-up with him for a while and see if it work
out for the two of you. If he ignores that, then
accept the fact, there's someone else out there,
just open your door.
BE SMART. . BE STRONG. . .
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2007-02-26 21:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break up with him, it seems to me like youre not important enough to him...If he has no time for you, but time for his video games, he isnt worth your time...You can have someone so much better! Some guy who wants to spend most of his time with you, and see you alot during the week...keep these simple things in mind...It might be tough breaking up with a guy youve been with along time....but it happens to everyone...It's not like youre going to marry him right?
2007-02-26 20:40:41 · answer #6 · answered by Faine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi There, You can ask God To help you out with this. God will help you. Be brave good luck on it. God loves you. God bless you.
2007-02-26 20:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by I Love My Friends 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his @$$!!1 tell him that if he feels that his games are more important to him than you, then he doesn't deserve you!!!
2007-02-26 20:57:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it doesnt sound like he loves you very much if i were you i would confront him about it and if he doesnt show promising results then find someone who will love you.
2007-02-26 20:42:45 · answer #9 · answered by Goaliegirl3333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he need help!!!!....if that dosent work then dump him cause there are many guys who will appreciate u rather than their games. DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!
2007-02-26 20:41:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋