first off i want to say that i'm still young and it's just recently that when someone brings up the lesbian topic i freak out. ever since then i keep thinking i may be lesbian. the thing is i have liked tons of guys. and i have had my eyes on one for two years now! i like him a lot. the thing that makes me think i'm lesbian is that sometimes when girls wear low shirts and i'm talking to them...the eyes just go down. it's not interesting to me but then they think i'm checking them out. i'm just trying to say hello wear a jacket!! and then after they say stop looking and all it's like i'm not going to say wear a jacket so i keep trying hard not to look, impossible to miss the shirt is so low...that it's even harder. it's just so uncomfortable for me. i don't think i'm lesbian or anything. but i may be a little interested in the female body lets put it that way. please help me!!! i don't want to be lesbian!! i'm too young and i want to get a husband not a wife!!!!!!AHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!helpp!
2007-02-26 12:25:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sexuality isn't black and white; most people aren't 100% straight or gay. You're straight with a tendancy to check out girls, but it's not enough to make you bi. Sexuaity is a gradient.
2007-02-26 12:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sungchul 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the short answer to your question is, "No you're not a lesbian." It's perfectly natural to be curious about the bodies of other people. I think everyone is constantly wondering how they compare, even if subconciously. The question you really have to ask yourself is do you feel the same feeling about the girls with the low cut shirts as you do about the guy you've been "eyeing" for the last two years.
The most important thing, above all else, is to be honest *with* yourself AND *to* yourself.
2007-02-26 20:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Christopher C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you are probably not a lesbian. :)
Every straight person I know has found a couple people of their own sex attractive and low cute/ tight clothes are supposed to be racy, of course they can trigger a little excitement even in people who don't want to have sex with the women. Sexuality is really diverse. Some people like ONLY one sex, but lots like mostly one sex and occasionally the other! So yeah, even if you kissed a girl, not saying you ever would, but you'd still get a husband just fine lol
2007-02-26 20:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only a lesbian if you are attracted to the female body in a sexual way. So don't worry! It doesn't sound like you have the hots for girls, just an interest.
2007-02-26 20:30:51 · answer #4 · answered by anamaradancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're looking because the shirt is low, and you're like what the heck, they're shirt makes them look like a slut, they are such a slut. People stare at people that look like sluts. I have a tendancy to stare at people with deformities (I'm not being mean, I just can't help it, my eyes wander), but not because I am attracted to them, just because I have some internal urge to look at them. You are staring like any normal person would stare. Its alos like when I stare at other guys that wear really bright colored purple or pink shirts, not because I'm attracted, but becasue I am wondering, why is that guy wearing that bright shirt, its weird, stop wearing that shirt, you should be wearing black like me and all the other guys over here.
2007-02-26 20:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by dark_forsaken_wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon, this is simple. Listen, sexual orientation is probably not a conscious choice, but just because you are looking at a girls chest doesn't make you gay. At the least it may hint that your bi-curious, but I think in this case even that is stretching it quite a bit. Its totally natural to find another woman's body attractive or even provocative, but it doesn't seem to me that you are finding any sexual attraction to them, so its probably just curiosity!
2007-02-26 21:13:20 · answer #6 · answered by BIG P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't seem like you are. In order to be queer you'd have to have at least some kind of sexual attraction to the same sex. Looks lik you're free and clear.
But even if you were, it wouldn't be anything to be ashamed of.
Either way - no worries. : )
2007-02-26 20:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweety relax...
like u said you are very young and you are exploring other people's bodies as well as your own... so you look at other girl's skirts and legs. So what? we all do, I do that even now days out of pure curiosity and am m tyotally str8!!
don't think so hard about it... let it go, it will pass by itself. you'll laugh at this one day, you'll see
take care and get that hottie (guy) you got yr paws on to ! hehe
2007-02-26 20:32:56 · answer #8 · answered by JennnyL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chillax ma, you not a L. your just out for the concern. everyone has a lil lesbian in them. i know i like to look at girls asses but im not a lesbian or bii
2007-02-26 21:59:23 · answer #9 · answered by modelgyal91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're young and confused. You could actually be bi but have not explored your lesbian desires.
2007-02-26 23:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋