My girlfriend has her name one the house they live in. He has bad credit she says. She can't get out of it, or maybe is not willing. She has 2 very young boys with him. She visits me every other week when HE will watch the boys. We have dated for at least 7 months and she drives every other week to see me. I bought her an engagement ring and more when I had money. Her excuse to not wear it is she is so compassionate that she don't want to hurt him. Help! I think its wrong. I bought a REAL emerald for her that she wears...she says...but she won't wear the diamonds. It hurts. Am I a fool? Tell me the truth.
2007-02-26 12:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by pofdog 2 in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
Hard to say. could be true, but I would not want to put my self in your possition of wondering. No real way to know without it looking like you don't trust her, which it sounds like you don't completely. I can understand her not wanting to hurt him and it is possible not to have sex and live together, but it is also disrespectful not to wear your ring too.
2007-02-26 12:27:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This doesn't sound like a good seen, she's with him but drives every second weekend to see you. may be I'm wrong but this sounds like a love triangle that could go horribly wrong. Do you talk to her at all during the week? May be it's time to just sit down the nest time and talk!
2007-02-26 20:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool. Get out of this. A good man is hard to find.(Trust me, I know) Why are you willing to tollerate this situation of hers? Why do you not require more from the partner who you choose and allow into your life?
2007-02-26 20:22:58 · answer #3 · answered by tlbrown42000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds fishy to me.
Have you talked to this man that she is living with? While it is possible that she is telling the truth, it seems improbable. If she really isn't with this guy, then she wouldn't live with him.
2007-02-26 20:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never call anyone a fool, but you need to dump her. She is using you.
2007-02-26 21:59:35 · answer #5 · answered by S W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES AND NO
2007-02-26 20:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋