okay my best friend and I like the same guy he is single and flirts with me all the time. I know he doesn't like my best friend. What if he asks me out and i say yes.... i don't know what to do! my friend will be totally crushed!!! what do i do and say?
2007-02-26 12:15:28 · 7 answers · asked by lol 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ask her *permission* first...not to say she has any authority over your life, but hey you want to be nice. if she says no then don't go out w/ him. if she says she's ok with it then go out w/ him.
2007-02-26 12:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first one for what BFF stands for. Bff's always come first with me. If you really say that she is your best friend then you should not say yes to the guy unless she is really over him. I am in the same situation, and I would never say yes. Who liked him first? Especially if it was her first! I would never do that, but maybe you would. That wouldn't make you a very good friend would it? Hope this helps! -Rayna F.
2007-02-26 12:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BFF stands for:
Best Friends Forever and Best Friends First
dont ditch ur friendship for a boy.
boys will never last.
friends will.
friends first.
you should know how she feels and if there is even a slight risk that she mite be jealous or anything or that it could ruin ur friendship.... say no to that boy!
2007-02-26 12:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my OLD friend always said we were friends before anything eles about 2 1/2 yrs ago I broke up with a guy who she was friends with too. I moved kinda far away from home and they ended up getting together with out telling me. I was shocked at first but then I didn't care. But since I broke up with the dude he doesn't want her talking to me. So I have not talked to her in a year.....It really breaks my heart. So please go with what your friend says is okay becasue you don't want a guy breaking your friendship up.
2007-02-26 13:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by punkmommy-2-1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't say yes...boys come and go but best friends last forever
2007-02-26 12:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
would she do the same as u,ur friendship is worth more than a date
2007-02-26 12:38:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl keep ur bestfriend
but u aint gotta lose ur man balance them out
2007-02-26 12:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by ~Tranell~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋