cause this weekend i came home kinda high and she had noticed, now she doesnt trust me anymore what should i do she makes it such a huge deal but it's just weed everyone does it ?
2007-02-26 12:09:26 · 36 answers · asked by blonde_chick 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Well first not "everyone" smokes it, just a fairly large number. Now dont get me wrong I am pro marijuanna i just think u need an attitude improvment. Now then as to what to do with your question. Take a little break from it so she belves you stoped, and when you start again be much more damn carfull about it and dont be damn fool and come home stoned or smellng of pot.
2007-02-26 17:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dylan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont smoke pot anymore. Don't be a wimp and do dumb things just because you THINK everyone else is doing it. By the way, they are not. Pot stinks a lot and most kids can't hide it very well when they are stoned. If you want to ever earn your mothers trust again I would stay away from that type of illeagal behavior altogether. I'm sure this isn't what you wanted to hear, so I won't expect the best answer.
2007-02-26 12:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty33 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you posted this in the pregnancy section. If you are pregnant and smoking weed, then SHAME ON YOU! If not then it depends on your age. If you are still in school quit smoking and do as your mom says after all you live in her house and you are disrespecting her by going against her wishes. Do NOT keep any in the house (or the car if its in her name) she can be in as much trouble as you if you get caught. If you are old enough to live on your own and you don't like your mom's opinion, then move out. She is your mother and will always tell you what she thinks is best for you, but she has a lot less sway when you don't live with her.
2007-02-26 12:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by cane_holder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Not everyone does it. She is upset because she loves you & she knows what that can lead to. It is called a parent who loves their child & wants them to grow up & become productive adults. It is her job to guide you in the right direction, not to be a friend, but to be a parent. As a parent myself, I battled many a battle with my children & they fought me & I stayed on it & they are now productive adults who now have children of their own who want to see them grow up to be productive adults.
Those you are with may be smoking a joint & this may not be important right now, but they are going to have a much harder time than someone who does not in life. Pot can also lead to other drug habits when the pot is no longer strong enough. Ask yourself this question.... Does your mother love you? Does your friends mothers love them? Which loves the other more..... a child who's parents says here ya go, go kill yourself & sits down and smokes it with them or the parent who says, I love you & will stand by you & protect you with my every being. Be thankful for the mother you have, many do not have a caring parent, instead they have parents who only want to be a friend & never be the bad guy so to speak, you will learn a great deal from a REAL MOM verses a "FRIEND MOM" who never really cares. Sounds like she loves you, don't shove that away, not all kids are that blessed in todays world!
2007-02-26 12:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by fryscountrybargains1 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Oh well, since EVERYONE does it.... I guess it's okay. Psh!!! Yeah right!! You screwed up kiddo. Good going! It is a HUGE deal. It is ILLEGAL. When I was younger still in school, I used to smoke and I regret it. My grades dropped, I was always ditching etc, and It is not worth it. Especially if you get caught by the authorities. But of course you think to yourself "That can't ever happen to me" or "I'll never get caught." so good luck gaining your mom's trust back, if you ever do.
2007-02-26 12:40:25 · answer #5 · answered by mrs.russell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm, well i have been in this situation many a times. i dont do it anymore, but wen i was a bit younger and i was still into it and could care less wut my mom sed, i just was relli sneaky abot it. i dont recommend that tho... if you want to gain back her trust, you need to show her that u can make socially responsible decisions, by hanging around good ppl, being a leader rather than a follower, doing ur chores b4 going out with friends and working hard at school. trust doesnt come back overnite, so be the good person that you are and dont sink into peer pressure too much. truse me, i was a pot head and now i regret it.. i wish i had someone to guide me in the rite direction then..... luckily i got myself out of the habit.
2007-02-26 12:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by prettyinpink<3<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE BEEN SMOKING POT IN THE FIRST PLACE!!! What kind of a moron thinks that it is no big deal. I am glad that she doesn't trust you anymore, maybe this will teach you a lesson.
And no, everybody does not do it, I don't do it, none of my many friends do it, none of my family does it, most people at my school don't do it....need I go on?
It is a huge deal and you need to get that through to your brain, well, what is left of it that is. ;)
2007-02-26 12:24:58 · answer #7 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's mad because she's disappointed with your choices. All your life she's tried to teach you the difference between right and wrong. Smoking pot is ILLEGAL, not to mention an expensive waste of your time. If you want to make your Mom trust you stop doing it! Why would you want to put yourself and her through drugs anyway??????? Get focused on what's important, education and family. Most of the friends you have now are just passing through your life, but your Mom is there for the long haul.
My Father died on his 30 birthday from an overdose of heroin...there isn't a single day that goes by that I don't miss him. But you know what....he started with 'just smoking pot'.
Drugs are a catylist for more drugs. Stay away from them.
2007-02-26 12:18:15 · answer #8 · answered by S T 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Everyone does it. Hmmm, my mother didn't do it. My father didn't do it. My brothers didn't do it. I didn't do it. My friends didn't do it. This is not simply something that "everyone does." It's a drug. It does not help you, it hurts you. Your mother shouldn't trust you, because it is a big deal. You may have long term health problems. Your grades may go down. You may dable in other drugs. This can lead to many things. Stop now while you can.
2007-02-26 13:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am glad she made such a fuzz and does not trust you anymore....
NOT EVERYONE smokes pot! Only kids who have very low selfesteem do so. It really is not good for your health. Do some research! Don't listen to your loser friends who say "everybody does it"....
2007-02-26 12:14:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋