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I am asian guy and a caucasian girl at work flirted with me but she was labelling me my previous nationality even though I'm British citizen for 10+ years when i saw her the other day. I'm really confused.

2007-02-26 12:04:19 · 14 answers · asked by Wonderguy 1 in Social Science Psychology

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she's not worthy of ur worry. forget about her just ignore her flirting in the future. sounds really like she's attracted to u but she can't control her prejudice attitudes towards u so just ignore her.

2007-02-26 20:05:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

There's really no such thing as "different races". Differences are simply up to 0.05% genetic difference between so called races. These differences tend to be the amount of melanin cell colouring in our skin or an extra layer of fat above the eye lid in chinese groups and so on. In fact, scientists have found that there are more differences "within" so called "races" than there are between different races. So the term race coming from the latin "rasse" should be scrapped. We are all of only one race scientifically: The HUMAN RACE. Anyone who says otherwise is mixed up with out of date science based on victorian terms mongaloid, caucasoid etc. Differences are barely genetic but CULTURAL. Understand the culture and there's no good reason why we cant integrate. People Groups or tribes are better terms. Race implies that we are racing towards evolutionary climax at different rates. This is a new age belief system. This cannot be true where is the 100% evidence for macro evolution? Evolution is simply a theory which we are pre-programmed to beleive in the secular west. But there's NO concrete evidence for Imagolution. See Dr. Kent Hovind on races

2007-02-26 12:33:08 · answer #2 · answered by coventrystratford 1 · 0 0

Probably one of the "best compliment " she could give you is that you have no asian accent. To her eyes you are still foreign and exotic, which whether you want to eliminate or not is apparent to her. Nonetheless you can flirt back and notice her distinctly British habits that you may or may not have noticed. Now if it was America and you could prove emotional damage, there could be some monetary compensation due to you, however since this question was too short to make more assumptions, balance your romantic life with whether you want to continue to live with such a situation.

2007-02-26 12:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by Philip H 3 · 0 0

None of the information you have given us helps us answer your question. If you want to find out, just ask her out. If not, then just start wearing a ring to work. Lots of girls flirt with people all the time because they are keeping their powers of seduction in practice (practice makes perfect) in case they come in handy one day.

2007-02-26 20:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by Wise Kai 3 · 0 0

It sounds like this girl is confused as to whether seduce u and has certain insecurities about having u as her lover. she's such a loser!

2007-02-26 19:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rachelly 2 · 0 0

To white people if you have squinty eyes you are asian
It does not matter where or how long you have lived somewhere

2007-02-26 12:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Study her actions for a little longer and see how she reacts wit you. If she continues, you must be onto something...
good luck

2007-02-26 12:08:01 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Natasha*~ 3 · 0 0

If she was calling you names then yes she is acting weird.
Some young women, I find, are very immature.
Ignore her, unless you want a relationship with this person.

2007-02-26 12:11:35 · answer #8 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 0 0

she's flirting with u and she thinks ur really interesting but ur of a different race which she dislikes

2007-02-27 01:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Educate her.

2007-02-26 12:07:10 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Bloggs 4 · 0 0

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