My husband masturbates every day while looking at pics of skinny models in undies. He prefers the pics to me.

Question

I am now starving to try to get skinny so he might like me.

Answer 1

you need to get a grip of yourself here honey, he'll make you as sick as he is....get some help immediately & be ready to be in this for the long haul or get the hell out right now....this isn't about some skinny girls he happens to jerk off to...this is about him. don't blame yourself here, which BTW is what you're doing. It doesn't matter whatyou look like, he will still jerk off unless he searches for the help he needs to overcome this thing that if left will destroy the pair of you. good luck....

Answer 2

Dont starve yourself. being beautiful isnt on the outside its what is inside. he married you for at least one reason didnt he. try a taking some photos of yourself using a mirror. start with an outfit you feel the best in and go as riskay as you want. then make a new account in email he wouldnt know about. and secretly send them to him. you never know a little surprize goes a long way. it just might spark some intrest in your photos more. try this a few pics a month. and then talk to him about it, or get interested in it too. you never know he might just get sick of it if you like it too. lol

Answer 3

Unless you were fat when you and he married, why are you telling us this. Whats wrong with him wanting a good looking and skinnier wife?

If you were big when you married, then that is one thing. But if you plumped up afterward, please dont play the ploy for sympathy here. A man just like a women, wants a mate that looks good, etc. This whole idea that a person must accept another just as they are is complete nonsense. You dont do so of others, at least if you have much choice, and you have no right to ask that anyone else does so either.

The whole idea that big is beautiful is nonsense. If more people thought big was beautiful, people wouldnt have to spend so much time trying to convince themselves and everyone else that big is beautiful now would they?

Answer 4

Well I really do not think that starving yourself is the answer....about all that will do is make you sick....and he will still be jerking off to pics. Maybe just ask him if he prefers mother palm and her four daughters to having REAL sex with you. If he says he does....then you have bigger issues than being skinny....which I think you already know.
Best of luck

Answer 5

i'm a lady, obviously. And, the skinny image is disgustingly skinny. women human beings's body sorts pass in and out of style. at present, the skinny type is in. Later, the curvy type will be in. do in simple terms not substitute your self to extra healthful into the 'now.' Be healthful. this means a BMI (body mass index) of everywhere from 18.5 - 24.9. Be healthful!

Answer 6

Do you think he is doing that because he is looking at skinny girls? I think not, he is doing it because he likes it and that is the way that he chooses to "excuse" his desire to just masterbate. Trust me honey, you can lose all the weight you want, he won't stop masturbating. Better he's looking at pictures than laying some prostitute down, right? Maybe entertain him and join in when he is doing that. Might proud him to invite you instead of his paper dolls.

Answer 7

While this can be a normal thing a guy can get addicted to this. He can also become desensitized to the real thing. Sit down with him and have a heart to heart conversation with him.

Ask him what can you do to help him come back toward you. Remember this is your hubby so there is not wrong you getting a little freaky with him. Masturbate together if this will help.

Answer 8

Listen to what I'm about to tell you and no matter how foolish it may sound to you, *try* to understand...

Your husband's problem has absolutely, positively nothing to do with you. The problem is **NOT** that you are too fat, too ugly, too boring, too plain, or any of those things!! Again, his problem has absolutely *nothing* to do with you and there is nothing you can do to "solve" his problem.

You can diet to the point of being anorexic, it isn't going to change a thing and you have to understand that. You can buy sexier clothes, learn better makeup techniques, get a cuter hairstyle, it is not going to solve his problem.

It is a mental fantasy thing in his mind that he may or may not want to act upon in real life but either way, the problem does not have a damn thing in this world to do with you so don't dare waste a single precious second of your life beating yourself up about it. The problem did not start because of you, it doesn't currently exist because of you, and nothing whatsoever that you do to change yourself will eradicate that problem. It is wholely and entirely *his*... *own*... *issue*...

Answer 9

Do not starve yourself to look like this just because he is lusting and looking at these girls. I know how you feel because i was there and my first husband used to do this to me as well . he is sick and needs help and he has a problem. You both may need marriage counseling as well. It is not worth starving yourself over this though. If he continues to do this and does not or will not stop leave him and move on with your life.

Answer 10

HE is nasty and dont starve yourself, if u get skinny, he will treat u just like the models...............in undies.
U guys need to get help cause the REAL problem is bigger than his masturbation.

Answer 11

If he is still having enough sex with you don't sweat it. I do it everyday and still have sex 4-5 times a week with my wife. We need to see other women. Try going to a strip club together. He will be all over you for a month!