He goes out for other girls occationally and tells me the truth. It never gives me anger instead turns me on more. What do you think?
2007-02-26 11:57:39 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well my man instincts tells me he is very lucky and you are hot!
but reality check tells me something's not right. Apparently it is telling you the same thing otherwise you wouldn't be asking.
Please don't tell him I said it's wrong, I would hate to mess up the thing he's got going.
2007-02-26 12:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by John P 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't believe you that you don't get angry. But if this really is true, maybe you're hoping he will bring them home for a threesome? If that is the case, tell him!
If that's not the case than I do think that you are kidding yourself! I think that you are afraid of the emotions that this kind of confrontation will bring up. Maybe you are afraid that he will leave you. Maybe you are so happy with your life that you would rather just let him break your heart whenever he needs to so that you can maintain the life that you are living. It's a lie by the way.
2007-02-26 12:05:05 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would guess that you probably have low self esteem.You are probably focusing on some imperfection that he has told you that you have.In your mind you think it is OK for him to get what you supposedly lack from other women.You are abusing your self by excepting second best.You think you are turned on more,this is just are primal instinct to compete.Think about what you are competing for.
2007-02-26 12:04:39 · answer #3 · answered by RhondaJo 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well i think that if you dont get angry there are at least 3 reasons why. you either have alot of trust and a good realtionship or you have some things in your closet that your not telling him, or you huys just need tp have a 3 some theres nothing wrong with how your feeling thats how me and my guy are
2007-02-26 12:04:26 · answer #4 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Leave him girl or get some therapy. He tells you that because he knows you just love him too much you forgive him. If you think he loves you then just wake up.
2007-02-26 12:02:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bouchra :) 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well.......... it seems there is more to you than you want to admit to yourself. If this kind of confession turns you on, then i guess you're the type who wouldn't say no to a threesome.
Maybe you should try that out, maybe your husband will not like that and stop his ways.
2007-02-26 12:01:29 · answer #6 · answered by ggoldiee23 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you two have a great relationship though it's not for me I think that anything that turns a woman on should never be tampered with....He is a lucky man......
2007-02-26 12:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by Arthur Richards of Kent 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you and he have more of a sexual relationship than anything emotional. Whatever trips your trigger.
2007-02-26 12:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bud's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dump him
he doesnt like you thats why he goes out with other girls
2007-02-26 12:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think u need help
2007-02-26 12:00:43 · answer #10 · answered by Simmi Reds 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋