Well me and my girlfriend had a pretty healthy relationship when we first started going out. Weve been together for about a year and four months now but, now it seems like all she ever does is get mad at me for every single little thing. We used to be extremely sexually active but its been 4 months since weve last had sex. Now she gets mad at me when I try to have sex. She claims that she loves me, and she acts happy sometimes and tells me that she loves me, but she gets mad at me alot and its driving me crazy because I do everything that I can to make her happy but its so hard to. She is also the type of girl that doesnt like to be touched, or kissed alot, or if i touch her it tickles. This is extremely hard for me because I look at these things as showing affection so obviously she hardly ever shows me any(but she does tell me she loves me, after I tell her). Why is she being like this? Is she tired of me? Shes also very school active so could it be that shes just stressed?
2007-02-26 11:24:53 · 6 answers · asked by bad2bone2212 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
About the same time that we stopped having sex, she also met this girl and they are like best friends now. The girl is a lesbian and since shes been friends with her,there has not been any kind of sexual actions. When were together all she does is sits there and texts constantly non stop and it drives me nuts. Me and that girl are cool and we hang out and stuff, but could it be that she is open to turning lesbian since her friend tells her things like penises are nasty and that she would never do a guy?
2007-02-26 11:27:53 · update #1
Truthfully she might have already been with her friend I have seen it happen and because she does love you she probably dont know how to tell you yet or she might just be using you as a boyfriend front. Ask her about it cummunication in a relationship is everything and tell her if you dont start getting a lil more attention from her then things are going to have to end even though you dont want things to because you love her but it's not enough affection in this relationship and no affection doesnt mean always sex it mean everything.
2007-02-26 11:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by maichellaih♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
UH OH!!!! i think she's messing around with the girl...."experimenting" as she might call it, "cheating" as you might! Some guys think "hey that'd be frickin HOT if my girl cheated on me with a lesbian, I wouldnt care" but it does hurt because you are being used, lied to, and I'm sorry, but her excuses are BULLSHIT! She's really shady-seeming as well. Not cool. I'd dump her, but make it seem like you're confronting her about the lesbian thing first. see what she says but underneath it all, DUMP HER
2007-02-26 11:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow dude. have you talked to her about sex? that's a LONG time to go without for only being together a little over a year. it sounds like she's over you, but wants you to be the one to call it quits. i'm not quite sure what to tell you except talk to her. see what she wants and what her problem is. my fiance and i have been together for almost 5 years and we still have sex at LEAST twice a week. somethings up with your girl.
2007-02-26 11:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she could be involved with her friend and is angry at herself so she turns the anger onto you i would try to talk to her and get to the bottom of this its not fair to you ,you have needs to be met just as all of us do and if she cant fulfill those needs then im sure theres plenty of other girls that can good luck
2007-02-26 11:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not be sexually attracted to you even though she loves you very much...go to the gym and get more sexy....try to give her some space (stop showing her affection, and be cold with her) she will notice and wonder why...if she really loves you she will look after you..if not then **** it
2007-02-26 11:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by angieaje 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
idk
2015-01-30 16:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Tyler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋