There's this guy i like and he sits w/ me at lunch everyday.......so i want to ask him for "help" on somthing that will take a long time to happen so we can spend time together, or "help" w/ somthing that will bring him closer to me such as exchanging numbers.........Thanks :)
2007-02-26 10:52:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Hello Asker. I believe in your situation, there is an excellent opportunity to approach this guy that you like. In your question, you've stated that he sits with you daily for lunch. This is a great chance to get his attention. I assume the two of you are friends. Friends that develop into couples usually start with talking. While at lunch, engage in conversation. Don't hesitate to ask him questions about his personal interests. By gathering this information, it will prepare you for upcoming events such as holidays or his birthday. When you feel comfortable that your friendship has been made firm with closeness, there is absolutely no harm in giving him your phone number. Advise is difficult to give considering that I, as the answerer, don't have an idea of how his personality is. If he is easy going, a sense of comfort should provide you with confidence to ask him if he would like to catch a movie. Going to the movies is an excellent choice because it's meaning can be modified to how you intend to make it. For example, if you feel comfortable enough with him, you can lift that armrest and move closer to him. If you wish to use the theater as an activity that will increase the strength of your friendship, you can go just as friends. Another cool thing that you can do and that is lengthy is a dine in restaurant such as Chili's or Apple-bee's. With the amount of time it takes to prepare the food, for you to eat, and to finish up, much time will have passed. However, since you eat together everyday at lunch, perhaps a different activity can be done together. Going to arcades, going to the park, or even going to amusement parks are fun activities to do together. These are things to think about once you've achieved your goal. I honestly can say that confidence is your best help. I know, as a guy, that I am much attracted to confidence in a girl. It shows self esteem and that you aren't afraid to be around a guy that you intend to go further in life with. Being shy shouldn't stand in your way. However, to build up the friendship between you two, take advantage of those times when he sits with you. Talk, and be curious about him and his opinions about things...surely his perspectives will stir up a conversation between you two. When the time feels right, you will definitely know it...give him your number. If he calls you, this should be the sign to talk more about what you could do together beyond school curriculum. Trust your instincts and have confidence in yourself. Don't let him intimidate you. Your emotions are only natural and almost everybody feels them. I wish you good luck.
2007-02-26 11:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. yeah, i know you won't like my answer, because I will probably tell you the same thing you hear from everyone else. Don't be shy girl, does he ever talk to you? Does he give you weird/good looks? Randomly smiles
2007-02-26 19:01:51 · answer #2 · answered by ღ❤Crystal❤ღ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give him yours and ask him to come to your parents home for dinner over the weekend.
A good guy will be more then willing to get to know your parents. And will make the parents feel more secure too
2007-02-26 19:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do that. ask him to give you his number then call him or give him yours and have him call you that way you will have time to think about what you are going to say. you will be ok. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-26 18:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so ask him... or just give him your number.. good luck
2007-02-26 18:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by BrittanyB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and give him ur number...dont be shy... =)
2007-02-26 18:56:02 · answer #6 · answered by яєηєє ℓσvєs вεiηg Hi§ ßα߀ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-26 18:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋