This is what i said.
Am I weird because I sort of um, ok here goes. I have fantasies about guys who are aggressive with me. I'm not into whips, leather or cuffs or anything. The thing is I am 16 and I have never kissed a guy before or anything because I dont like guys my age, I like men. Men who are in their 30's and I probably wont be able to date one. I cant kiss a guy I dont like. I like the idea of men shoving me against the wall (no i dont dream abt rape, not that) I cant tell anybody because it isnt normal. No one knows I like older men and I will not even date a guy my age. Help me.
I do have emotional feelings too. I just like men. They are so masculine. I wouldnt mind datin an older guy but as long as he isnt pushy.
I asked guys not to answer before but its ok, you can answer. Anyway i got a few replies like 'I lacked a father figure' or 'I need to see a phsyciatrist'. I wasnt comfortable with those answers. I am shy believe it or not. Can a relationship like that work?
2007-02-26 10:49:03 · 9 answers · asked by Bored 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Whats dateline NBC?
2007-02-26 10:53:07 · update #1
I think a lot of teen girls like older guys, it's a bit of a stage most of them go through. It's also normal to fantasise about being overpowered, especially if you are shy - it's like if someone is aggressive, the sex is not your "fault" and you don't have to feel guilty about it. Pleasure without responsibility ...
Enjoy your fantasies and desires, which are completely harmless, but I think you will have to wait a couple more years before dating guys that age.
You're really not unusual, I have male friends in their thirties, and when I'm out with them in public, I see LOTS of young girls (some VERY young, like only 13-14) checking them out and even flirting with them a little bit in an innocent way.
2007-02-26 12:12:30 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer lie in your comment that you would like being pushed against the wall. That action will light up your pleasure receptors as there are a lot of pleasure receptors on the back and the buttocks. Sometimes pain and pleasure are indistinguishable from one another. I would have a friend I trust push me against the wall to see if I really liked it. BTW, I bet I would! As far as older guys go, that's really not a bad idea. Go your way.
2007-02-26 18:57:23 · answer #2 · answered by rainbow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw your last question. It doesn't mean anything. You are normal you just like older men and most girls do. You just got to wait 2 more years and date all the old men you want. It doesn't have anything to do with not having a good relation with anyone. Just what you like. Normal...
2007-02-26 19:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about my answer ealier, i dont think a relationship like that could work. Heres why, you are 16, and the guys you like are 30, that would be illegal. Plus youd be into other things, and it just woudnt be a good relationship. You have every right to like who you want, age doesent matter to me. But i really think you should stick with guys your age.
2007-02-26 19:02:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thinking about something is one thing... doing something about it is another! Do NOT do anything. If this continues to bother you... go talk to your counselor, or to a doctor. They are there to help you. NEVER listen to someone that wants anything from you - that will only hurt you.
Be careful, and good luck! :-)
2007-02-26 18:56:20 · answer #5 · answered by Just For Fun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bored and an attention seeker?
2007-02-26 18:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if you like "Dateline NBC"
2007-02-26 18:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Start by talking to your mother.
2007-02-26 18:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Jesus Christ don't tell that goddanged pervert Fireman Jay where you live, PLEASE!!!!
2007-02-26 18:52:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋