Do you think i should cheat to feel even?
2007-02-26 10:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you would never feel even if you did it. You would more than likely be more depressed. But now the real question is "How can you sit over there and say that "you love him so very much" and even ponder the idea of cheating on him?" Quit accusing him, as we all know that if he is sooner or later he will get caught.. if he is cheating......
As for you if I were you I would be asking myself if I really loved him as much as I tell others I do....
When you really love someone alot, you would never think of cheating... You might need to do some soul searching on yourself and your heart before accusing him........
2007-02-26 10:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by unforseenfantasy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you feel like you should cheat if you think he is cheating? I have always heard two wrongs don't make a right. you have to ask yourself these questions? first, are you for sure he is cheating? have you actually caught him in the act with another person? if you answer yes to these questions then the best thing to do is just walk away from this relationship if you dont you will always leave a door open for him to treat you like a door mat and walk all over you and think it is ok....is it ok with you? if not find another fish ,,,,,remember there is always someone for everyone and another can always be better....good luck
2007-02-26 18:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you believe him, if he denies it?
Are you looking for an excuse to cheat? How can you even consider cheating on him, since you claim to love him very much?
You sound confused.
To answer your question, NO, I don't think you should cheat, period!!! Getting even never works, only forgiveness works We all need it. Therefore, we should be willing to give it.
It sounds like you are jumping to a lot of conclusions, and you haven't offered any proof for any of them.
2007-02-26 19:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by delmaanna67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters, you didn't give us enough detail. I suggest that you go back and add detail about WHY you think he's cheating (clues, evidence, etc.), then come back and ask for help. If you're not even sure he's cheating, it's and AWFUL idea to seek revenge. What if he's not cheating, and you cheat on him anyways because you thought he was? The story just sounds bad. Give more information, or find out for yourself, then come back and add detail.
2007-02-26 19:10:15 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may or may not be cheating, Well, who knows really, you will never control that in him, tell him to see who he wants and let him know your not sitting at home either....why play a tug of war game that can't be won?
If he is serious about you, he'll make it clear how he feels and act right, maybe, it's always a risk.
2007-02-26 18:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Adonai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to catch him in the act. Start looking for clues - perfume on his clothes, going out late at night, covering up, etc. Don't stoop to his level if he is cheating on you. Kick him to the curb instead.
2007-02-26 18:09:07 · answer #6 · answered by judirose2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feelings because alot of times your feelings inside will lead you to the truth alot of times a person will act different towards one of the first sign.
2007-02-26 18:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him if you really think he is cheating on you. You definatly dont need to cheat to feel better. That WILL NOT work.
2007-02-26 18:15:56 · answer #8 · answered by Crystal F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the truth. Hire an investigator. Have him followed and go with your gut. Gut feelings are usually right. Care enough about yourself and what you are involved with. If he comes clean, then great. If you find out he has been lying, then, dump him. He doesn't deserve you.
2007-02-26 18:11:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋