iam 18 an ma b/f is 36 we both have a big problem with alcohol but i have moved back to ma mums an just see him at the weekends now an its killing me..we keep falling out aswell coz i have started hanging about wae ma old mates an im gettin mad with it all the time ..i feel im gon back down the slippery slop what do i do i dont want to hurt ma friendss but i defenatly dont wanna lose ma b/f...plz help wat do i do.?
2007-02-26 09:34:15 · 10 answers · asked by claire4john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First...from the sound of it, you have a whole bunch of other issues besides this. I'm sorry to say, but I think you need some medical intervention. Go have yourself checked out and see if you can talk with a specialist. There are other issues here, I can feel it. Something your not telling us. Am I right? Family issues, background, what?
The Syko Ward
2007-02-26 09:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sober up and re post the question where the typos won't make it pretty much senseless garble.
An 18 year old and a 36 year is doomed from start because of maturity. It's not the age gap it's the ages. You admit to having a drinking problem, get help for yourself. Alcohol problems and relationships don't mix. You've got way to many strikes against you. You are on self destruct and need to seek counseling. If you aren't going to get help for yourself then don't drag others into this abyss you call your life.
Wake up and grow up!!
2007-02-26 09:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by briardan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you admit that it s a problem it means that you made the first step. You know what you want if you stop alcohool you wont lose you bf at the opposite just be strong. best of luck
2007-02-26 09:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by kitycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie... identity say that in case you'll be able to desire to ask on right this is you may desire to have intercourse... the respond is probably no! pay attention, first time intercourse is messy & awkward sufficient with none greater advantageous issues... while you're nevertheless having questions approximately in case you like to or could desire to working by using your ideas - its no longer gonna help. while you're uncertain you would be uptight & it wont be great - you desire to be comfortable & feeling sturdy - (then it wont harm too!) additionally as somebody else variety of stated above - think of long term era.... you in hassle-free terms get one "1st time"... in case you dont care approximately it being "specific", a minimum of care approximately it being sturdy! identity say, wait til you're waiting, thoroughly waiting, such as you dont wanna wait yet another day or minute! Then, nevertheless wait a at an analogous time as! If he's a sturdy b/f & rather cares & has activity in you & your relationship he would be cool & he will wait.... If no longer... nicely, that's ok isnt it... you have been maximum appropriate to attend & you're able to do it with somebody who became nicely worth doing it with rather. while you're nevertheless in contact he will think of you dont love him... intercourse & love are no longer an analogous factor, they could artwork nicely mutually for specific yet having intercourse with him doesnt mean you like him. Im specific you will discover a lot of alternative common procedures to instruct your love for him - if he's the superb guy you think of he's, he gets excitement from that & wait. Dont hardship & have relaxing! :)
2016-09-29 23:00:52 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some counselling. if you ring your local council they will refer you to a number of low cost or free community services that could help you work through your issues. Problems with alcohol are too hard to deal with by yourself. good luck...x
2007-02-26 09:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him hes 36 YEARS OLD! he can be ur father dump him thats 18 years of diffrence!!!! hes a alcoholic 2 now thats not good
2007-02-26 09:39:15 · answer #6 · answered by im awsome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help for alcohol addiction, it'll stop you getting angry all the time and could save you from long-term kidney damage
2007-02-26 09:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥H] ッ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE GET OUT OF THAT SITUATION . I WAS IN A SIMILAR ONE WITH A MAN THAT WAS 22 YEARS OLDER THAN ME . I KNOW NOW THAT IS WAS A TWISTED RELATIONSHIP . ANY MAN THAT IS WITH A YOUNG GIRL IS LOOKING FOR SOMEONE TO CONTROL . I THINK YOU DID MOVING BACK HOME JUST MAKE THE BEST OF IT . YOU ARE YOUNG , GIVE IT TIME YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE ELSE
2007-02-26 09:40:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tuff one but i think u need to go see a councelor wit ur bf and work things out....my mumsy did that with my dad and everything worked out real well
2007-02-26 09:38:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaught ta jis dump tha ol mayin
2007-02-26 09:38:23 · answer #10 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋