2007-02-26 09:31:25 · 34 answers · asked by rosco872 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, we are both adults but she is older then me.
2007-02-26 09:41:09 · update #1
Is it right you the both of you? Then who the hell is the public to judge?
2007-02-26 09:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by Sven B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends. If you were 9 and the other person were 18, yes... If you were 15 and the other person was 24 then yes... LOL Just joking. I am assuming that you mean adults, and no, I don't believe that it is wrong at all...as long as you're in love!! Even if the guy is younger than the girl - hey, it doesn't matter (if you're adults, that is). All that matters is that you are in LOVE! <3
2007-02-26 09:36:34 · answer #2 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her and you know that she loves you go for it. But first you need to talk to her and see if that's something that she would be interested in oneday. You don't have to tell her that you are trying to marry her but at least you will know her thoughts and feelings about marriage. Age can be a problem if both parties don't communicate and understand each others thoughts and views about marriage, family and life in general. I say get a feel for what she wants out of life and go from there. Good luck.
2007-02-26 09:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with consenting adults doing what they please. Remember. No one else will be in the marriage. Just you two. It does not matter what others think.
My father is 17 years older than my Mother. They have been together for 30 years now.
My fiance' is 6 years older than myself and I once dated a guy who was 11 years my senior.............
Good Luck and CONGRATS!!!
2007-02-26 09:36:10 · answer #4 · answered by VocalistGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, there is nothing wrong in someone being 9 years older than you.Age is only a number.I once had a boyfriend who was 8 years younger than me and he wanted to marry me.I could not marry him because he was a drug addict.
2007-02-26 09:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not women date & marry older men older than that all the time. As long as you are both adults there is nothing wrong with it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyone who tells you it is wrong is just jealous of your happiness.
2007-02-26 10:26:41 · answer #6 · answered by sedusa71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're both adults (typically over 18 but in this case, you'd really need to be at least 21 in my opinion), it's fine.
2007-02-26 09:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you love them.
My husband is 9 years older than I am. At times, it seems as if we are from different planets. Just remember, that no matter how old you get, you WILL NOT have the same experiences that she did at YOUR age.
The one thing that i get sick of hearing (besides "Is she your daughter?") is WHEN I WAS YOUR AGE.......
Good Luck.
2007-02-26 10:39:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your 30-40's then no but if you are 18-30 then yes
2007-02-26 09:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by jezbnme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are really in love with the person then age doesnt matter...im with a man that is 9 yrs older than i and we dont look at the age factor....he loves me for me and i love him for him! so yes its all good if your in love~
2007-02-26 09:35:12 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Ashley♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, if you are really in love it should be no problem but if your like 20 and there 29 its a bit young to get married when you are 20 but who really cares.
2007-02-26 09:35:19 · answer #11 · answered by This Account is not active 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋