i m married i love my husband but sometimes i only can have an orgamsim if i think about making love to another girl.. what can i do
2007-02-26 09:28:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
there is no test you can take to know a thing like that. if you are, you just know, inside. just because you think of women, when being intimate doesn't mean you're gay, though. maybe you aren't gay at all, but the thought of being with another woman excites you because it's often thought of as erotic and controversial or maybe you're bisexual. no one can figure it out but you.
2007-02-26 09:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by apricotsanonymous 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If You are sexualy attracted only to a women, or should I say :
if You are sexualy attracted only to a persons who are the same sex as You are, then You are gay! But, if You are sexualy attracted both to a women and to a men, then You are bisexual! You should think about this! And, then, if You realize that You are gay, or bisexual, then You should think about Your life. First You have to think about all this: Your problems about orgasms and that maybe You ARE gay or bisexual! Then, You should talk to Your friends and maybe to a psychiatrist who is specialized in those kind of problems! And You should ask yourself do You realy love Your husband, or is it just affection, or something else similar. I think that will help You!
But, in any way, You should tell, after You find out what Your problem realy is, Your friends and Your husband, and talk to him! And if he REALY loves You, he will understand!!! And if Your friends are REALY Your friends, they will understand!!!
Good Luck!!!
2007-02-26 18:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know that almost suffocating feeling you get when you're next to someone you're attracted to? Where it feels like you can't breathe, but at the same time, you can hear yourself breathing harder?
If you get that kind of feeling with women, you're likely gay. If you're only fantasizing, that's no big. Sometimes, we're desperate for something new - how long you been married? And fantasizing about women doesn't really feel like you're betraying your man, does it? Lots of women fantasize - the question is, in real life, do you get hot and tingly for women?
2007-02-26 17:42:33 · answer #3 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel! Ask him how he'd feel about you being with another woman. If its a no and you're unhappy with your life together then it's time to move on. You don't need to find out what your 'label' is, its not important ! Just do what you want to do, and what makes you happy. So what if your thinking about another women? If you're happy its not a problem! xx
2007-02-26 17:56:26 · answer #4 · answered by Londonbaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You do not figure out if or not you are gay. It is a decision you make, so you should know by now what you truly want.
2007-02-26 18:18:52 · answer #5 · answered by Karen M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are a guy and freak out if you lose the remote, you are straight, if you get up and change the channel, you are gay. If you are a woman and you get up, you are straight, if you freak out, you are lesbian. if you are a guy and KNOW fashion, you are gay. if you are a woman and do not know too much about fashion, you are lesbian.
2007-02-26 17:35:53 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Fox 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ASK HiM ABOUT EXPERiMENTiNG WiTH ANOTHER GiRL.
2007-02-26 17:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by sarina f 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it's just how you think you can't help it.just try not to let it effect your marriage.
2007-02-26 17:33:28 · answer #8 · answered by foshizRAWR 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well,...I'm a guy,....and I'm not gay.
.....but my boyfriend is!
2007-02-27 01:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you eighther love him or some other girl.
2007-02-26 18:02:18 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Micky ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋