2007-02-26 09:20:05 · 9 answers · asked by bubbles 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
he is the greatest guy and i dont want to leave him but what if he has another baby with the one night stand he had before we got togther?
2007-02-26 09:22:19 · update #1
If you got together with him knowing that he had had sex with other girls, then nothing has changed. He ahd sex with another girl, and this is the consequence. If you really love him and he really doesn't have any feelings for this other girl, you two can make things work. You might get a little jealous of him paying attention to a baby that's not yours, and that's normal, but if you can deal with it, then go for it. I'd stay with my boyfriend if that was the case, because you get into a relationship knowing the person has a past and accepting that past, at least I do. Good luck!
2007-02-26 09:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by grayhare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pregnant or had the baby already? did he know? did he tell you when he did know? all questions you need to know if he didn't keep anything from you and you love him then he needs you, its not easy for him either, just make shure you are being informed properly and that you are willing to help with this, it is a big deal!! Love is not always fair or easy so its all on what the circumstances are and if you are willing to adapt to his new life, unless he wants nothing to do with the child in which case you should run for the hills! good luck
2007-02-26 09:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Greatest Guy" or not, I'd get out while the getting is good. If she's still pregnant and it was before you got together the absolute most amount of time you could have been with him is about 8 months. You don't have that much invested. GET OUT!
2007-02-26 09:25:07 · answer #3 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you have a decision to make...either stay with him and support him...or dump him and move on. At least he didn't cheat on you. MY bf had a one night stand a few months into our relationship and she got pregnant. She decided to keep the baby...he had dna testing done to see if it was his and it was...the only responsibility he has to the child is financial. HE has nothing to do with this child as it was conceived from a one night stsnd. I stayed with him...as hard as it was. Its easier that he doesn't want anything to do with the child.
2007-02-26 09:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in the same position as you my boy friend had a girl pregnant too. all i did was accept the fact that she was carry his child and he told me that it was just a relationship before my time him and the mother of his child really didnt get along. i told him that i can not hate him for that i just had remember i was not in the picture but, i told him i will love his child just as much as i loved him
2007-02-26 09:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by nora85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he did before he met you should not matter.he should take responcibility for the child though if its his.you may have to except the child being in his life.and him having a bond with the other girl.but if you want to be with him it should work out good luck
2007-02-26 09:27:09 · answer #6 · answered by snowman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would find a new man, cause I would not want to deal with that.
2007-02-26 09:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by RearFace@18mo. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't deal with him having a child, then leave. he nor his kid should have to deal with an immature person creating even more drama in their lives.
2007-02-26 09:41:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well help him get through it, if it was before you then he cant help it. if you love him that much you would stick with him no matter what!!!
2007-02-26 09:24:24 · answer #9 · answered by BrittanyB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋