My story is long, but I will try to make it short. I have been married to my husband 9 years, and have been together 15 years. He has cheated on me, and has a kid with this lady. He keeps in touch with her (supposely because of the kid) which, I dont buy that....N'ways, I am confused. He tells me that he doesn't love her, but I think he does.....He thinks I am extremely jealous....Cause I am always reminding him "that he doesn't pay attention to me or the kids." (We have 3 kids together)..... I just want his attention, but he doesn't give me any..... I send him text messages to tell him how I feel, and he ignores them...... She sends him text messages, and he replies to her messages..... Today, he is ignoring me, he doesn't want to talk on the phone with me, but yet he is calling her and sending her text messages..... I went home for lunch, and he ignored me. I know he doesn't love me, but he won't accept it and tell me the truth!!
2007-02-26 09:15:53 · 6 answers · asked by crazy_sad_songs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You already know the truth. He answers her not you. The only thing worse than accepting his behavior up to this point would be to accept it still tomorrow. Kick his butt to the curb.
2007-02-26 09:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by NakasEvilTwin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you have a reason to be jealous, but no matter how much he likes this lady, he is with you.he obviously has a reason to stay with ou, and i think that if he was with the other woman, he would be paying a whole lot more attention to you just like in your situation. maybe he feels he has more responsability because you have more kids...but that doesnt matter. what matters now is that he feels committed, feelings or no feelings, and so you have him- something she will never have. so he will learn to love you, for his own sake if not for yours, even if it takes time.
2007-02-26 09:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by Morya tal i 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your not included in things in his life, and then he is ignoring you and your kids, ya there is something wrong, and if you feel you have tried enough then its time for you to move on, easier said than done but it works out, its not healthy for you or the kids ... you just have to make your decision to do whats right for you and them... good luck
2007-02-26 10:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i am so sorry to hear that, it is a horrible feeling when the man you married dosent appreciate, or respect you, you are the mother of his kids, you deserve the respect, there is someone out there who will appreciate you, i am sorry, but honey you are so much better off without him, you probably have lots of family and friends that will be glad to help you out, you should move on without him, you said you know he doesnt love you, so why when it comes to reality, you are in denial?? you know were you are better off, believe me you will feel a million times better after this is all over with.
2007-02-26 09:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by Baby girl 0509 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to accept it because the truth is staring you right in the face. set limits as to what you will accept and won't accept in a relationship and stick to it. i can almost guarantee things won't get any better and will probably just get worse. we get one life to live so don't spend it being miserable. you don't need a man to be happy but if you don't get out of this unhappy relationship you might just miss the one who will make you happy.
2007-02-26 12:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by kattz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions speak louder than words!! DUMP HIM!
2007-02-26 09:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Freya T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋