My boyfriend and I are fighting constantly!!!?

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years......I'm a 2nd year medical student. My boyfriend is doing his residency at a hospital couple minutes away from me. I know both of us are extremely stressed, but since we're fighting almost everyday its making me more stressed. I'm afraid to break up with him because I've always thought he would be the one Id get married to....I think I would feel empty without him. At the same time, I'm so sick of fighting with him that my grades are slipping. I feel like I'm stuck and I dont know what to do anymore. I'm studying to be a doctor but I suck at relationships....unbelievable. Please give me some advise on what I should do!!

Answer 1

you need to communicate with your bf sit him down and tell him how you feel. Tell him that you love him but hate the fighting. If the two of you cant resolve it on your own maybe it's time to see a councilor. If he wont go, you go. Finally go to the library and get reading on relationships and anger management. PS everybody sucks at relationships it's just some hide the fact better than others.

Answer 2

It can be the stress, since you've been together for four years. However, I would consider if you are really right for each other.

Answer 3

Life is too short, and that's too much drama. Go find someone better suited so it can be you and him against world instead of each other.

Answer 4

Decide what is more important to u your boyfriend or your school work .then u should be able to go on with your life.

Answer 5

then if u keep fight for no reason there is a reason 1. u dont like 2. u like someone else and 3. he plain UGLY!!!!
so what u shold do is dump him without hurting his and just move on!!!!!!!!!