my parents are already divorce and they got divorced when i was a baby so it didnt bother me, but my dad got remarried to a great person to me but not him and he feels that he doesnt love her no more so they r gettin divorced but i dont no how to go through it... i dont want them to get divorced but i want my daddy to be happy again... what should i do???!
2007-02-26 09:11:25 · 20 answers · asked by ~Michy~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its none of your buisiness...
Sorry. He will do what he wants and you will have to adjust, i feel bad for you and im sure he does too but these things happen.
2007-02-26 09:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If your Dad, is going to divorce his second Wife, there is nothing you can do about it, they are adults, and they decide what they want to do with their lives. If you have gotten attached to your stepmother, make plans with her to see if she is willing to have you over for a visit when she is available to see you. As you say that you want your Dad to be happy, I hope he will, but he should realize that you as his child, is unhappy about the Divorce and should make every effort to explain to you why it is, he is Divorcing his Wife. Good Luck and do not worry too much of what is happening to your Dad, he knows what he is doing.
2007-02-26 09:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like daddy will be happy after the divorce. I'm sure he wouldn't care if you stay in contact with his ex-wife-to-be. Good luck.
2007-02-26 09:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to know that this is the best. It's better to have them aprart then to have them arguing, and not loving eachother. You should just talk to them together and tell them how you feel. Let them know you love them both. Chances are, you are going to see your stepmom a whole lot more if you tell your dad that you really care about her and like her. I bet this is really tough on you. I hope I could help. :)
2007-02-26 09:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by XD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really nothing you can do but you can try talking to him and letting him know how you feel but on the other you do want him to be happy maybe they just need to find the SPARK in their relationship again
2007-02-26 09:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents were together for 25 years when they divorced and i think it's better if they are happy. You have to remember they just want to be happy. they shouldn't be together if they are not.
2007-02-26 09:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not your decision. You will have to deal with whatever your father decides. You can stay close to the "stepmother" if you and her both want to. But as far a them getting divorced it none of your business.
2007-02-26 09:15:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't know but if my parents divorced I'd go away and never speak to them, well they wouldn't even be able to find me. I have my own car and money.
2007-02-26 09:15:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can talk to your dad, but I really don't thing it is going to change anything. It is his relationship, not yours. Would you want your dad to bud into your relationship and make you stay with someone that you are not happy with?
2007-03-02 08:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, If they are not happy it will not do any good for them to stay together. BUT since you do like/love your step-mom then it might be a good idea to stay in touch with her. Good Luck
2007-02-26 09:15:33 · answer #10 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
FIrst of all, you have to realize that none of what your father is doing is your fault. You father will find happiness, and so will your step mother will also. They both love you and will be there for you ..esp. your father. It'll be ok. Just support your father.
2007-02-26 09:17:46 · answer #11 · answered by K.W. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋