what do u think will happen to you if it happens?
2007-02-26 09:09:32 · 20 answers · asked by ToxoTes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It happened to me. A long relationship that had survived me being away a lot while in the army ended a year after I'd left. I went to the states for four months for work and when I came back she said she realised she wanted to be single in the time I was away. Of course I was heartbroken and am a long way from healing fully (only been 7 months).
However I wouldn't take back any of the time we spent together to avoid any pain now. I never worried about it when we together and in the future if I fall in love again I hope I can avoid worrying and simply enjoy the fact of loving and being loved.
Its arguably the best feeling in the world - don't worry about tommorrow so much that you spoil today.
2007-02-26 09:19:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I use to be be a strong believer of being inlove but being with the same person for 8 years, love has a different meaning. Its more of what you've been through together and how you grew up together. I love him but I do admit I'm not inlove with him. I am inlove with our past though. He feels the same. Even though we have our differences we have never said "I'm leaving you!" Its the best feeling in the world.
2007-02-26 09:24:58 · answer #2 · answered by cocoa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~~~ particular,it incredibly is possible to love without FALLING INLOVE! i like Bob Marley and each little thing he stood for,plus his track is superb. yet ,i'm no longer INLOVE with him. that could be impossible considering the fact that he's been long gone for twenty six years now......in spite of the certainty that his track lives on. perpetually! I incredibly have a boyfriend whom I sorta love,yet i'm no longer INLOVE with him like i replaced into with my husband earlier he kicked the bucket. Being INLOVE makes you experience extra look after with the guy you're with. i'm going to under no circumstances be INLOVE with my boyfriend because of the fact he makes racist comments approximately Bob Marley , which fits against my hero's philosophy........"One Love" So next time J says something destructive....it incredibly is to the slash. ~~~
2016-12-14 06:25:11 · answer #3 · answered by sickels 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I think if you feel that this may happen you should do your upmost to make sure it doesn't. Keep the home fires burning and make the most of what you can now. For me, I think there is more chance of me losing him in an accident than leaving me for someone. However I lose him, I shall miss him. Then I'll brush myself down and get on with it.
2007-02-26 09:15:55 · answer #4 · answered by JJ88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no guarantees. If you want a guarantee, buy a toaster. Seriously, there's no way to predict this other than not to rush into marriage. You really need to know this person and that takes time. IMO, that's the best way to hedge your bets and you'll have the best probability that that won't happen. Still, there's no guarantees.
2007-02-26 09:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time worrying, enjoy it now. Its no good worrying about what might happen, you might get run over by a bus but you dont worry about it do you?
Anyway, poeple change as they grow older, you may be the one to fall out of love, things change thats life.
2007-02-26 09:18:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as i am going through a bad patch i worry about it - i am scared he doesn't feel the same towards me anymore. we have been together 5 years but it is a worry but as other people have said you cant really worry about stuff like that otherwise you would never do anything - i guess its believing and hoping that you are with the right person and make each other happy.
2007-02-26 18:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Pebbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats just happend to me, im in a marraige with a baby and found other womens numbers in my husbands phone. im heartbroken, i loved him so much. these women have got back to me saying my husband has been hounding them and it hurts so much, everyday is a struggle to get through. but you cant go through life worrying that someone will fall out of love with you, if they feel the same they will never do anything to hurt you xx
2007-02-26 20:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Since we're married, we don't rely on being IN love or OUT of love. We made a commitment to love, honor and cherish-- being IN love wasn't part of the vows. Love is how we behave towards each other.
2007-02-26 09:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. You can't go through life worrying about the what ifs.
If it did happen, I'd be sad, then I'd pick my sorry a'rse up and get on with life - would be her loss, anyway.
2007-02-26 09:14:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋