What stood out? Was it one thing..like sex or their looks or their personality etc?
2007-02-26 09:05:11 · 10 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
grat in bed
2007-02-26 09:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the dating game, there is always a bit of tension as the two parties "check each other out". They think to themselves, "Am I doing the right thing" or "am I making a good impression"? When I met my wife, none of that tension was present. We were completely comfortable with each other. I did not have to impress her and she did not try to impress me. We were totally honest and open with each other and we felt comfortable being together. After our first date, I could not get her out of my mind. I wanted to be with her and nobody else. We enjoyed being together. After two dates, we began talking about our future together and were officially engaged after only one month, two weeks of dating because she was out of town the other two. We are now celebrating our 33rd anniversary together. We have six children and four grandchildren.
When considering a mate, use the standard of "if in doubt, don't". The comfort zone has to be on both sides. If either one of you feels slightly uncomfortable, then it is not yet right. Than can be no doubts or discomfort. You must be completely at peace with the decision.
Don't settle for anything less than a total commitment, and that does not mean physical experimentation. Get comfortable with the person, not the body. Save the physical expression for after the marriage. Don't worry about being able to be compatible. If you have come to love each other as companions and friends, then working out the physical details will be easy.
2007-02-26 17:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by rac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. We both knew the first day we ever really talked. There's just something there that leaves you no choice. Not really any one thing, just that feeling that you finally found what you'd been looking for all along.
2007-02-26 17:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lotus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after dating a few people, you will figure out what's important to you or what's not as important. no one has every single quality you yearn for so you come up with a priority list and you get to know yourself well. so you keep dating and get to know yourself better. then you may meet someone who has a few most important qualities you're looking for and plus he/she is your at least very good friend...then you may know.
2007-02-26 17:10:45 · answer #4 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knew all the bad stuff about me and still loved me.
Plus, you get this feeling and you just know. If you don't have that feeling, he may not be the one!
2007-02-26 17:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by LP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just comes believe me you can't explain it, you feel deep inside that this is the one you can't live without & that s it. Wish you all the best
2007-02-26 17:08:54 · answer #6 · answered by kitycat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are happy to be around that person and can't think of spending your life without them.
2007-03-02 16:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His sense of humor, he treated me like a queen & knows how to treat /respect women!
2007-02-26 17:27:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After she sent my body to heaven and my brain south during our first hookup. LOL
2007-02-26 17:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i thought my abusive husband was the one i thought i was special what a fool i was he dranked abused me i was his punching bag and now he's throwed me away for a slut whore idid a lot for him i suported his ***
2007-03-02 15:13:43 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋